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I have read Chapter 1, the verses were powerful. ” Self doubt blocks the promises of God’s power and the truth to change us from the inside out so we can live with a confident heart’. In answering the questions, my earliest memory of doubting and feeling insecure was as a child. The disharmony in my home, my mother overloved, my dad was an alcoholic, school was hard as I am blind in my left eye and so I was not coordinated, my eye looked like it was lazy so I was called a cross eye baboon. Insecurity kept me from dating different boys, going to college until I was an adult. When doubt whispers, I shut down, I listen to the lies of the devil. I have hope when I read God’s word. Pain is my constand companion. So I do not feel well and that hinders me the most from living with God’s confidence on a consistent basis. I want to be a woman with a confident heart. I want to be one who sees God in what I am doing. Jermiah 17:7 let me be a woman who trusts in the Lord and is confident. I want to write. I want to be whole. I want to not procratinate. Blessings Diana
This is my first time joining an online bible study. i’m not sure how exactly to do it. Do I need to read all the blogs? (Not that the blogs are not important. I know that we all have something to share to each other..)Or, should I just do the assignment and share my thought about it. I’m sorry I think I’m really lost in a way of doing this.
Anyway, I read the first few blogs and some are exciting and some are very heart breaking…I really pray that God will meet each of us personally wherever we are at right now. Most of all that God will open the eyes of our hearts to REALLY see him and know and believe that He really, really loves us. Let’s overcome doubt and fear by CHOOSING to believe the TRUTH. The Word is the truth and the truth (the Word) will set us free!
I’m feeling a little frustrated……I posted something yesterday for the online study and I can’t find my posting. Is anyone else having this problem?
I had trouble finding mine, too, Mary. I’m wondering if there are just so many posts (which is awesome!). I’m kind of overwhelmed with trying to keep up with the posts. Would love to read them all, but if they continue at this pace, won’t be able to. Still, it’s great to see so much participation!
Hi Renee,
I read your book in the fall, and it touched my heart in so many ways. I am thrilled to have the opportunity to go through it again with you as my guide. God is really working in my life right now to make me into the Christian woman He created me to be. I have been a Christian most of my life, but doubt and insecurity have always held me back. I would rather sit idly in the background than step forward and risk saying or doing the wrong thing or worse yet failing. I have spent a lot of time worrying about what other people might think and my perception of what they think is always filled with negative chatter. I’m not good enough. I’m ugly. I’m fat. Why would they want me around. They don’t want to hear what I have to say. I have no real reason to feel this way. I just made a habit out of beating myself up. I have been blessed with wonderful, loving parents, a terrific husband and three beautiful daughters, and I have a really good life yet I doubt myself. Doubt and hope cannot live in our hearts at the same time is the line that really grabs me as I reread Chapter 1. Over the past year I have seen God’s work unfold in my life. I have felt the power of prayer at work in my life as I rested in the palm of His hand with the peace that passeth all understanding that only He can give. On January 1, 2012, my middle daughter fell down a ski slope in Colorado into an artificial snowmaking machine head first. We were 20 hours away at home in Mississippi when we got the call that she needed immediate brain surgery or she would not survive and at that she would probably have severe brain damage. My response was do what you have to do, and we will be there as soon as humanly possible. It was late Sunday afternoon on New Year’s Day and we were two hours away from commercial flights that were departing in an hour, and we were having trouble getting a private flight. We would not be able to fly out until the next morning. That would not do. My baby was in a strange place with strange people, and she was hurting. No way could I spend a night 20 hours away doing nothing. I was praying so, so hard, and I did the only thing I knew to do at the time. I sent out a plea on FB for prayers for my daughter and that my husband and I would find a way to get to her. Within an hour we were on a private plane to Colorado. As we were rushing out the door leaving our other children and family behind, a kind doctor from Denver Health called to tell us she was going into surgery and God took us into His hands. It was that time in our lives when there was only one set of footprints in the sand. We arrived shortly after midnight just as they were bringing our daughter out of surgery. That was the longest 31/2 to 4 hours of my life yet I never felt closer to God. The doctor that met us was amazed that she was awake and responding to them with her eyes. They still did not promise us that she would not have brain damage and the whole right side of her body was paralyzed, but our God is in the miracle business. Through Facebook and Caringbridge prayers were being lifted all over the world and over the past year, though it has not always been easy, we have watch her heal to almost 100%. She is back in school and doing well. She still has a few struggles but they are so minor compared to what they could have been, and God is working in her life as well as ours. As her body has been healing over the past year, my heart, mind and soul have also been healing. God has been showing me my value. He has shown me how much people really care even though we take that for granted in our normal daily lives. He is showing me I can make a difference, yet I still let the shadow of doubt overcome me at times. I have learned the meaning of Romans 8:28, “I am working all things together for good, because you love me and are called according to my purpose.” He took the worst thing that has happened to us and is working good from it. He has touched so many lives through her accident and our journey to bring her back. He is guiding our way. Her FB status at the time was Jer. 29:11 and there is no doubt in my mind that He has a plan for her life, but I also think He has a plan for mine. He is helping me find the true me that has been hidden under all the doubt and insecurity. I don’t know what He plans to do with me when He finds me, but I am anxious to find out, and I am so grateful to have people like you to help me along in this journey to find me.
That is just amazing work of God in your life and family. There is really nothing impossible to our God. And God said, “those who trust in the Lord will never be disappointed.”
The statement that most resonated in me was”As God’s girls, we need to know and beleive that change is possible.” I so often feel that things will never change and that I am stuck where I am. I don’t feel things are really bad, just that they will not get better. I know those thoughts come from me and I need to have the God Confidence maybe just to look at things in a different way. His way instead of mine.
Good Morning! I am enjoying this first chapter. How did you know so much about me Renee! 🙂 So far, the sentence that really speaks to me as a reminder to be aware of the source of my thoughts is this: “Self-doubt blocks the promise of God’s power and truth to change us from the inside out so that we can live with a confident heart.” Also, God has been, for a while now, showing me that I go so far in moving past self-doubt and turn back. I am looking forward to God and I exploring this issue and coming out the other side of it, more in love with Him and more believing and relying on Him.
I have been so blessed ALREADY by your book~ thank you for allowing God to use you Renee!
I can relate to the father/daughter relationship and the consequent pattern of ‘striving’ to measure up as a teen and adult. It is still a struggle, so this book comes at a perfect time…
I am also a worrier by nature, and with a big project due in 8 weeks at work, I have been on worry overload. The project is one that was handed to me last minute, adding to the anxiety, so after reading chapter one, I am claiming Jeremiah 17:7! I have written the verse on a notecard and I am carrying it with me everywhere I go! I am also reminding myself that as I trust in the Lord, that my hope will not be disappointed as promised in Isaiah 43:19~ as I said this Bible Study, could not have come at a BETTER time! lol
Thank you again and looking forward to the next step! Blessings to you and your family.
I had trouble getting connected your blog page tonight. I couldn’t open it at all. And Windows said it needed to know what program to use to open it. But I just closed it and went on with what I was doing.
I did the required reading tonight even though I had read it before, but thought I’d refresh my mind. Then I did the 7-day doubt index analysis. Came up with 148 total score, so I fluctuate up and down with my self-doubt.
I’m finding it hard to understand your comment in the book how you ‘fell in love with God when you realized how much he loves you’. I know an acquaintance that always said she loved God more than her husband and I never understood that. How does one feel that close and in love with God? I have also suffered many times all my life with depression. I always thought, because it usually came on me at Christmas Holiday time and through winter, that it was because I never had enough money to buy presents for my children and my husband and family that I wanted to give to. My husband died at 54, 17 years ago and I still have depression off and on. Although I have never felt suicidal.
I have had self-doubts since I was a young child. I can’t remember my parents ever telling me they loved me and didn’t show their love very often either. I loved them dearly but didn’t receive the love I wanted from them. I never sat on my father’s lap for him to read a story to me or any other reason. My Mother would put me to bed and read to me almost every night. I was the youngest child in the family out of 11 children. The second oldest was a sister and she hurt me so many times in my life I could never count them all. She did that to me until I got married and was a woman. Always criticizing me for most everything I did or didn’t do. When I asked my mother why she thought my sister did this to me, she had no answer. I believe, now, that she had many issues herself all her life that made her do that to me and other members of my family and to her own grand children and family. Many of them didn’t like her as a grandmother. So I have forgiven her several years ago and she has been dead for several years now also. As a matter of fact, none of my siblings are living any more, nor my parents. I am the only one left in my family, except for some nieces and nephews. I only have my two daughters, one son in law and two granddaughters in my life and they are my reason for living.
I could tell you more, but I won’t now. Maybe later. This is supposed to be a comment and it has turned into a long story.
I am so thankful that God led me to your blog and website and I pray that I will receive much benefit from this study. And I believe I will find it because I do love Him and believe in Him and I have confidence that He can heal me of all the doubt in my life.
Thanks for being there for me.
Sharon
This is my second time to do this study. I am not very good at staying connected through the computer, but know that I need to for encouragement in the journey. I have felt “shelved” for the last several years. I have been following God’s leading and have learned to find my identity in him and not man, yet even as I write that I know that I have a long way to go. I hope to get a little further down the road and help my children and women that God puts in my life find the true source of strength and hope. Thanks for offering this study again!
This is the section in Chapter one that got to me:
“As God’s girls, we need to know and believe that change is possible. We need to hope that life can be different. Otherwise, doubt will win every time and our hearts will be eroded by attitudes and emotions of defeat. But, it is not supposed to be this way.
God declares, with confidence that things can change. “See, I’m doing a new thing.”
“I am working all things together for your good because you love me and are called according to my purpose.” “All things are possible to her who believes:”
I am challenged. Do I believe this? I just walked through the grocery store tonight, thinking to myself, “I’m nobody” over and over. It was like I was lost in a sea of “somebodies” and I was the worthless nobody. I thought about many years ago when I managed to land two very prestigious internships in my field at college. Now, here I was so many years later, doing a stressful, dead-end job that is not using my abilities. I’m divorced, abandoned and unloved. My body and spirit have been shell shocked by years of physical deterioration due to health concerns and mental and spiritual deterioration due to family situations. How did I become like this? There were times that I was so overwhelmed with the realization of my Savior’s love for me. The last several years, I’ve fallen into the pit of despair and hopelessness that my life will never get better. I can’t stay here. I can’t bear it. I long to experience His love anew, to feel Him wrap His loving arms around me and say, “It’s ok…you’re mine…I love you…and I’d do it all over again for you, even if you were the only one.” And, amazingly, He did do it for me, even though He knew that I wouldn’t fully accept and believe His gracious gift to me. I took part of it…the part that didn’t require me to open up and reveal all of the ugliness within my heart. But, though I clenched those things tightly to my chest, He still knew. He knew every last thing I’ve done to let Him down. He knows every heartache that I’ve clung to and the walls I’ve erected around my soul to prevent more heartache. He did it all for even me.And, it’s only the tip of the ice berg.
I look forward to falling in love with my Savior again in this study. I want to have confidence…to fully rely on and trust in his love, though no other love I’ve experience on earth has been fully trustworthy. I want him to take the rejection that battered my soul as a young child when my daddy wanted a boy, rather than a girl child. I tried so hard to be that thing he wanted, even by becoming a tom-boy. Then, along came his boy. The substitute was no longer needed. Didn’t take long to figure out that while I had been trying to become what Daddy wanted, my sister became the little princess. No chance of me taking that role over. I didn’t even know who I was anymore. But, the rest of my childhood became me trying to find my place in the family, trying to make Daddy proud. I finally did when I got those coveted internships. I actually heard him say he was proud of me.
And, then, I found Jesus at the same time I met another man. It was kind of a struggle to see where I would find my fulfillment. At times, I fully experienced who Jesus was to me and felt His love clear through to my soul. At other times, I was trying so hard to find that love in the form of an earthly man who, sadly, would hurt and reject me far worse than my daddy ever did. I came through almost 20 years of marriage feeling completely unlovable, incapable and worthless.
The children who came along were the best distraction I could ever have. I poured my life into them, home schooling them all through to college.I have seen one graduate to become a talented graphic designer who is using his gifts in the Kingdom. I’m watching with excitement as my second child is about to graduate with honors and is heading to grad school to continue preparing for a life of ministry to those who hurt. I couldn’t be prouder and I’m so thankful that God gave me these precious gifts to be a part of developing and nurturing. I didn’t do it perfectly, but I did my best and His grace has been sufficient.
And, now, I’m here, hurting as I’ve let them go.I look back on my life and know that I have wasted my talents as a writer. The job I’m in now will take me no where. I basically work under stress all day and come home in pain from my chronic pain and too tired to try to do better. When I’ve tried, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, I have been really close to giving it all up. But, by His grace I’m still here.
I so need this study and the little bit of hope that I feel embarking on this journey to find a confident heart. I truly want to fully rely on my God and to fully trust in His promises. I want to break out of the discouragement and hopelessness to truly let Him use them for my good and, more importantly, for His Kingdom. It has to be worth it all sometime…neglect, abuse, unfaithfulness, cancer, divorce…Worth it ALL! I want to see these horrible things woven into a beautiful tapestry of a life devoted to Him. I want to see green, scarlet, and hey, even fuschia threads of all of the pain and heartache of life woven together with the golden, silver and precious threads of His grace and love. I want it to all be something that He can someday use for His glory to help someone else. Even one.
At this moment, I could cry thinking of this possibility. It is terrifying to hope. Yet, it’s exciting, too. I want to stick through with this study this time. I need to see it through. I long for a confident heart.
Thank you for the privilege of participating with all of you in this study! Can’t wait to see what He does in all of us!
Renee,
Thanks so much for your desire to help other women deal with insecurities. I stumbled across this study last night and believe that God has a purpose for me as it relates to this study. I also invited a girlfriend in our community group to join us.
Thank you for this opportunity!
Esther
I am someone who struggles with a lot of doubt, feeling like a failure at work, at school, as a mother, and as a wife. This doubt has had me in dark places at times, but I am so thankful for my friend Donia who is the one who introduced me to the book and online study. I am so excited to watch the Lord do a work in me and in all of our lives. I am so tired of living a life full of doubt, I just want to be all that God has created me to be! Thank you Renee for answering the call that the Lord has had on your life!
Hi ladies! I just finished reading Chapter 1. When I originally signed up for this online study I thought it was a good topic, but not exactly what I needed right now. After reading, I’ve changed my mind! God knows better than me what I need! I can relate to the endless doubts and insecurities. I’m looking forward to this study.
I read this book last year & enjoyed it. I read lesson today & remember I liked the bible verse Jer 17:17. Learning our faith by bible study has helped me have a more confident heart.
I am taking time tonight and for the last two days, to make this a priority in my life. I pay to be able to keep focused to do so. There are so many things coming into our lives. From looking for two pairs of missing keys to keeping up with an overwhelming number of daily responsibilities.
Looking forward to being apart of the online study and hoping it keeps me on track reading the book!! I have a busy life with work, husband, and 2 young boys and tend to shove devotionals and time with my Father to the back burner!! I know I will be a more fulfilled wife and mother if make it a priority to spend time in prayer and bible study!!
When I read the first chapter my heart and soul took a DEEP breath…relief in reading the words from someone who has REALLY struggled w/ self doubt. Self doubt has been w/ me near all my life…these words opened that area in me to THE LIGHT….
Hello Renee, I attended your conference in Long Island, NY 2 weeks ago. What a joy and blessing to have you speak for the Lord. I felt God’s love and spirit in my heart all through out the day; my relationship with Him is getting stronger each day. Thank you very much. God bless you always.
PS. I was the one who bought 2 other books, CD’s for my 2 sisters.
Emalyn
Im so excited to be a part of this study. I have struggled with doubt my entire life.
I’ve never felt good enough, smart enough or strong enough.
Like Renee says
“Doubt keeps us from believing things can get better.
Doubt convinces us it’s not worth the effort.
As God’s girls, we need to know & BELIEVE
Change is possible”
Those lines hit so close to my heart. Im so glad to be a part of this online study
and know Im not the only one who struggles with this.
Thanks for writing this book, Renee and sharing your Godly wisdom with us!
So excited to see what God has in store! May He give each of us the desire if our hearts as we delight in Him!
Read and enjoyed chapter 1! Looking forward to what this study has in store!
I came across your book looking for something else. This study is such a blessing. I have struggled with self doubt for a long time. Focus on Jesus, then put my eyes back on myself. Such a whirlwind. It felt like I was struggling with this alone. Thank you for this site and this great study and wonderful group of women willing to work together so we grow in Christ together. May you be blessed for writing this book that is so needed. Looking forward to growing and helping others grow together. I will be telling all the ladies young and old about this study and your book. Once again thank you very much. I feel so relieved that I am not alone in this battle.
Praying and rejoicing over this bible study
I was so happy when I came across your site and offered this online bible study. I have struggled with confidence my entire life and can’t wait to dig in!
Hi Renee and all you lovely friends in Christ, I am so looking forward to this online study. I am so encouraged by Renee and feel God has really guided your life in such a positive path to help others. Thank you and from a person that loves to help others I will so learn about myself and how hopefully I can share this confident heart with others. God Bless all that you do.
Hello everyone, I am looking forward to an exciting journey with all of you and to see how God will work through each of us to fulfill His will. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose” Romans 8:28. I love that verse and it is a promise from God that in everything that happens in our lives, good and bad, God is working. He uses it all to his purpose. Stay strong ladies and know that he is there and have confidence that He is for us and not against us and in that we can build our confidence.
I am excited about this study. I am so lonely for friends. We moved to a new town, about 1000 miles away, a year ago and I am struggling to make friends. I am encouraged by this study to try harder. I have anxiety and it has presented some challenges and I just don’t want to give in to it.
I am so thankful to begin this journey. I too fear that it will not make the change I am so hoping for it to make but like you wrote “I need to turn to the light not continue to turn from it”. I am so tired of living life feeling that I am never enough and not joining in on things because I am afraid of what others think of me. Or not join in on a conversation because I might look foolish. So I sit on the sidelines in hopeful anticipation that perhaps someone will bother to give me the time of day. I hardly ever approach anyone else or begin a conversation because I think that others are thinking horrible things about me. I never feel smart enough, pretty enough, skinny enough, dressed good enough, nice enough, thoughtful enough. I am tired of being less than everyone else around me. I am tired of living the way I think people view me. My perception of what I think people are thinking of me is far more debilitating than even really knowing what they think. I grew up in a family where everyone talked about everyone else and usually in a poor way. Unfortunately it still happens today. My dad always told me he had never wanted me and because of me he had to marry a woman he never loved, my mom. So than of course it felt like my fault that they divorced. The divorce was a bloody battle. Through my teenage years my dad would call me all kind of colorful terms including the words dumb and fat. My early twenties my dad would call and leave horrible messages and tell me more horrible and colorful things and It was and no wonder I didn’t have any friends. I want to believe God’s truth for me unfortunately the bad stuff is easier to believe.
All things are possible for those who believe. That is the truth I am you g to hold onto be wise I don’t want to live in this muddy pit for another 38 years. I want to believe all of his truths for me not just for everyone else.
Thank you so much for this study. I am thankful to be a part and surrounded by woman who are looking for the same thing as me. Confidence in Christ and all my empty places to be filled by his great love.
Michelle, blessed child of God He would never want you to hear or believe any derogatory comments about who you are. You are HIS CHILD and He would not want you to be hurt by what your biological father thinks about you. Take heart hold on to the one that will love you forever. I will offer prayer for your heart to be comforted. God bless
Thank you for hearing me, Helen. And thank you for your encouraging words.
This is so exciting to read everyone’s post. how encouraging. It is so amazing to see how so many of us are on a similar journey, especially in our own homes – Satan always seems to attack us where it hits the hardest – in our homes. I am confirmed even as I post this that I am in the place God wants to teach me to trust in Him through this study. I will be praying for everyone throughout our journey. I love the Ephesians scripture from Renee in one of the post above. My 26 year old son used to tape note cards with scripture written on them to his steering wheel of his care. I think I will do the same throught this study. What a great way to have God’s power in your face all day long.
This study is so timely. I had downloaded a copy of A Confident Heart several months ago to my smartphone when it was offered for free. I knew I needed to read this, but just hadn’t had the time,….or maybe the discipline to get past the first chapter. This study is a Godsend. Please pray I will make it part of my routine.
I have battled with a lack of confidence and self esteem for a while now. I am missing out a lot because of this. I even “settle” instead of having the confidence to wait on what God has planned for me.
I am in a challenging marriage and have been told by several I should just leave, but that advice conflicts with wedding vows which I hold dear. I’m also reluctant to confront. I know Satan would rather keep me down and listening to him, but I would like to soar with a confident heart and be ready for all God has in store for me.
Please pray, I really need it to get started.
Bev, I did leave and am now reconciled. My marriage has been a challenge for me, also. Or so I feel. I can tell you leaving is not the answer. I thought that was the answer for me and discovered it was not. Reconciling is a journey now, too. But God has done a great work in me throught it all. Hang on, find someone you can talk to, and dive into this Study. I had to get honest with myself, too. Honesty is hard, but well worth the journey. God showed me so much during my time alone. I wish I had learned to focus more on Him in the beginning. It took alot of pain for me to learn that lesson. I will be praying for you. Stay focused on what God is teaching you. He will show you. Take care of yourself for a while and heal. Believe it is okay to love ourselves and nurture ourselves. I truly believe God will direct you. Always be watching where He is working and ask Him where He wants you to join him.
The sentence that really got to me was, “Although you’ve been miserable, at least misery is familiar where you are now.” I currently live in a city I hate, but God moved me here for my job. I am extremely unhappy here (don’t like the environment, place, behaviors of people, the commute), but I am too scared to leave and move back to the city I love without a job. The job hunt has materialized into nothing. So as tough as it is being here, I stay here out of fear! Fear of the unknown, fear of living by faith without a job for a while. So I stick with being miserable because of fear. A friend once said, “until you get sick and tired of being sick and tired, you will not do anything about it.” She is so right!
The doubting whispers are so true and sometimes they are not whispers, but actual people who speak into your life, loudly and constantly. Often they speak from their own personal fears and which we allow to shatter your confidence.
I love Philippians 3:12-14 and am trying to live by it daily, “Not that I have already obtained this or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead. I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” (NIV)
Although I have only read chapter one of the book, I am so looking forward to the rest of the book and our online discussions. Thank you Renee for stepping out in confidence to write this book and share it with all of us!
I have a million emotions running through me at this very moment. I told a friend of mine about the book and as I was telling her about it I said I loved it, but hated it. I thought i was finished with things in my past by just saying i was done with it. Turns out I was so wrong. I did not realize that my shaped me into the person I am but not realizing it wasnt the person God wanted me to be. People always told me my life story made me strong. I am not so sure about that now. I realized how fragile i really am. God has been speaking to me everytime i open the book. I am so grateful and nervous at the same time.
My favorite sentence from Chapter One – Self – doubt blocks the promise of God’s power and truth to change us from the inside out so that we can live with a confident heart.
Renee, I would like to Thank you for writting A Confident Heart. Because of my past, self-doubt affects every area of my life. I know that with God all things are possible, and I think God has lead me to your on-line Bible study to show me what He has planned for my life and family. I want to find God’s will for my life with a Heart like Christ. Please pray for me.
Yes, I received and read the first chapter, actually I am on the 7th chapter, I had read ahead before I knew that the Study was starting, all I can say is wow.
So excited for the study. Was literally almost in tears reading the foreward section about the childhood rejection. Could relate 100% and the process was repeated in my marriage. So thankful for the perfect, eternal love of our Heavenly Father and our Bridegroom. Can’t wait to experience this love in person in eternity someday!
So very blessesd to have God lead me to this study. My life fell apart about 6 months ago. My husband fell back into drugs alcohol and adultry. We had both slipped so far away from the Lord and his addictions took him further. We were a breath away from divorce. I reached out to the man that helped lead him back before and he with the Lord leading got my husband down to a ministry about 20 hrs away. God is working in us both and rebuilding our marriage. He is very blessed to have the help and support he does and I am grateful for that. I on the other hand have very little support or understanding in this season.
I am praying this study helps me to diligently seek the Lord and find confidence in Him. I need to become the strobg Godly woman God has called me to be. My livibg situation is very very hard and my family does not understand how I can be with this man. I know this is the man the Lord created for me. I know He will bring ustogether as a family again and it will be better then I could have ever dreamed. However doubt creeps in and I am scared. Scared of the unknown. I don’t know when I can move to where my husband is and I don’t know how God will enable thos to happen. I need to trust in the Lord for it all but it is hard to let go and sit still and wait.
Dear Renee,
I am doing this study again in hopes that this time I can go further with a stable God-confidence. I have struggled all my life since I was a small child with deep insecurities which has affected my relationships and my purpose. I pray that this beautiful and touching book along with the study will once and for all eradicate my inner self-doubts. Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability!
Love, Giselle from Miami, Florida
I am ready to start this study. Sometimes I feel like I am not living with doubt then life circumstances (health etc) creep in and tells me different. I find myself wondering am good enough to be doing the things in church that I do such as Stephen Minister. I question the role. Am I qualified enough? I ask God to use me as his vessel then question the opportunity. I look forward to truly relying on God for my confidence. Thank you for this study. Blessings
How long do we have to finish first assignment before moving on to next assignment?
He’s led me beyond believing in Him to really believing Him by relying on the power of His words and living like they are true no matter what my feelings tell me. This is something that I feel strongly about. When I am in the Lord ‘s Word and fellowship I can remember that his truth transcends my reality. Your story resonates with me at the insecurity feeling of being rejected by peers. I remember struggling with being able to make friends and sometimes still do. I sometimes feel rejected and wonder Where I fit in. Afraid of being alone and I feel less than. I am always looking for God’s direction but sometimes my feelings or my prodigy defensive reactions get in the way.Staying in God’s Word helps me come back to the path I want to be on. I am still a work in progress:)
I bought this book and wanted to join this study because I have been doubting myself a lot lately. I have been 2 car accidents in the last year that shook me to the core. One of which I should have not walked away from. My husband was diagnosed with cancer 3 years ago and although he is currently in remission, praise God!!, I lack the confidence to not be plagued everyday that it may come back…….I want to live in Christ’s freedom and not in constant fear. I want to live smack dab in the center of His will for me and at times fear steals that away.
I am on a journey to feel more confident about myself and not let others, who do know truly know me, take my confidence away. I can identify with the comment about wanting to change jobs but having a fear of the unknown. It is indeed scary but I am on a journey to let God direct my life and help me feel more confident about life decisions.
This is the book for me! I have had low confidence as long as I can remember. For as long as I can remember, if I thought I wouldn’t be able to do something, I refused to really try. I know I have missed out on many wonderful things God had planned for me b/c I hated the thought of failing. After being diagnosed with MS 7 1/2 years ago, my confidence levels dropped even more. I know that God will work through this study, and I’m looking foward to seeing what He has planned!
I am on a journey to rediscovering my first love. My confidence has been weak most of my life. In answering question one today, I found myself writing a page long answer. I am seeing how these answers color how I view the world. I had always been able to make sense of both my circumstance and God, neatly. Several years ago I went through an intense season of rejection and betrayal. I have had to wake up that my neat package of understanding could not account for these things and my very faith shook to its core. I am rebuilding now, with God in the lead. I refuse to rely on my understanding because well… So, I open this book and my heart to God and say, “Show me.” I know He is God and King of the whole creation, I want to KNOW He is God and King of me, too. This is my hope for this journey. That I may find my first love again.
Thank you for inviting me to be a part of this study. I bought the book a while back and I cant wait
to get started with an on line study. God bless you for being an obedient servant to help all of
us who struggle with confidence.
It’s so encouraging to read everyone else’s thoughts and see where they are in their lives/walks with God because we can all relate to someone else’s journey from some point in our lives. I personally have a hard time sometimes discerning what God wants me to do. I want to do His will, and think I hear Him speaking to me, but then I doubt myself and wonder if THIS is really what God wants me to do or is it THAT–whatever the case may be. I often wish I would wake up with a big neon hanging in my room saying, “Do this” or no, “Do that”. Third Day’s song “Revelation” sometimes feels as if it is the theme song of my life. I think the thing that spoke to me the most this morning was the second sentence of Romans 12:2. The entire verse says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Also, 1 John 5:14 where it says ,”…if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us”, and Romans 10:17 “faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ” really seem to go together. It reminds me that if we are in God’s word ‘hearing’ Him, He will hear us when we pray and truly seek His will with all our heart. Thank you for encouraging us to not only be in God’s word, but to pray it, and reminding us that this will give us the confidence we seek when asking for clarification of His will in our lives. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I have been praying for God to do just that – point some big arrows at what He wants me to do! I so want to hear God, but I don’t. I really understand where you’re coming from!
i’m scared too like you kristina, i feel the same way, want to be helped but will i do then what God wants me to do, what if i too scared or just don’t want to, that thought haunts me then any other.
I’m excited to do this study. I’m also a little nervous. I’be been feeling lost these days, as in I don’t know where God wants me or what I’m doing. Most days I feel like I don’t do much to contribute to the kingdom of God. I’m hoping to deepen my relationship with Him through this study and become a confident woman in Christ. Renee thank you for all the time spent in writing this book and doing this bible study. What a blessing you are to others.
Good to be part of this community, but I even doubted if I have anything to offer, I have struggled with self-doubt alot, growing up and even taking it into my marriage. But I the scripture that came to mind as I was writing this is Gal 2:20 I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. So there is hope in Jesus.
I am excited and nervous. My prayer is that I stay disciplined and stay on task. I have 3 pre-teen/teenagers and I often time let them, husband and other issues still my focus. And honestly sometimes just plain laziness. I have had this book for about 6 months and have not read it. I was thankful when I saw this online study and felt like it was divine timing. I have low self-esteem and I want to have better God based esteem. Thank Renee for following God’s heart!