Today I want you to meet my sweet and amazing friend Jennifer Rothschild. Jennifer is a wife, mom, national speaker, founder of WomensMinistry.net and author of several books, including “Self-talk, Soul-talk: What to Say When You Talk to Yourself“ as well as “Me, Myself and Lies Bible Study.“
She is also speaking with me on the Girls GetAway Cruise in October {and we’d love for you to join us!! – more details below}. For now, turn up your volume, click on the arrow and join us for some girl-talk:
- Recognize – Recognize if your self-talk matches up with God’s thoughts.
- Refuse – Refuse any self-talk that is not consistent with God’s words.
- Re-phrase – Re-phrase negative thoughts to align with scripture. Tell yourself the TRUTH, and nothing but God’s truth!
When we take these 3 steps, God begins to erase negative self-talk and lies. Speaking of erasers, Jennifer needed one that morning. Before we met, she bent over to pick something up, and hit her eye on the edge of the desk. {Cringe} She had a video shoot that afternoon, and a lovely black eye. So, I whipped out what I call my “magic eraser” makeup and covered it up. Look. You cannot even see the deep dark purple mark under her eye.
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Self-talk, Soul-talk by Jennifer Rothschild
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Jennifers book sounds like a great summer helpful resourse we all need some help
Sonja
Thank you for this message today! I am diligently working towards confidence and refusing negative statements and thoughts in my life.
I shared this on Facebook and I already subscribe to your emails!
A Confident Heart has blessed me so much and I will definitely be reading it again and again!
I, too, just shared on my FB and I already subscribe to the blog. We did A Confident Heart last summer as a summer Bible Study, and are doing “Missing Pieces” in the fall for our Women’s Bible Study. Love you both!
Just shared the link on FB, and I already subscribe to the blog.
What an encouraging woman and message. I ‘found’ Jennifer several months ago online and was so encouraged by her message of ‘self talk’. I still need to buy her book “Self Talk, Soul Talk”, which I perused. Her message reminds me so much of your book, Renee, A Confident Heart. Of telling yourself the truths about what God says about us, and not listening to the lies of the enemy. I will put her 3-word self-talk process in my memory bank, and incorporate it along with all the great truths I’ve learned from A Confident Heart!
I am emailing this to my daughter!
Much love and thankfulness to you both!
I have emailed a few of my friends that deal with these negative thoughts. I am so guilty of doing it myself and is so encouraging to read this and see the video. I hope that over time I am able to “erase” these negative thoughts and replace them with God’s truths.
I praise and thank God for having spoken to me through you, Jennifer and Renee. 🙂
Renee, your book has always been a source of encouragement and enlightenment to me. It’s definitely one of a kind. Looking forward to reading more of you. 🙂
Jennifer, you have always been an inspiration and a God-given example worth emulating. Your God-inspired outlook in life motivates me to always regard my blindness not as a burden to carry and to worry about, but as a blessing to share and to thank the Lord for.
I will treasure in my heart the 3 R’s, and commit to Recognize my thoughts that don’t align with God’s thoughts, Refuse self-talk that doesn’t agree with what God says, and Re-phrase negative self-condemning thoughts with God-centered and “God-fident” truths. That’s exactly what I need to be reminded of and to live by every single day.
I’m so blessed that I can’t keep myself from sharing the link to this wonderful post with my Facebook and Twitter pals!
It is also my honor to be subscribed to the mailing list.
Keep it up, dear sisters in Christ. 🙂 You are blessed and loved. May you never rest in serving our great God.
Thank you Renee and Jennifer for the inspirational message in this video. I have posted a link via my blog: http://www.womeninchristourking.blogspot.com so others may enjoy it as well.
Patricia
Thank you Renee and Jennifer for this great video, it’s amazing what negative words can do to us, to our children. I have written the 3 R’s down and will carry them in my purse, and in my heart…there are so many unhappy people in the world and say so many negative things to us, I have made it a point to just close my eyes and pray for them, we need to be equiped with God’s word and the three R’s always. Through this study I have grown so much and I am now able to process negativity, more positively with God’s word. I have been telling my daughters about this study and it has had a positive impact in my home with my husband and my children. I feel so blessed.
I gave this book to my older daughter when I stared the study, she started it and then stopped, but has started it again three days ago, she is approaching chapter four again (where she stopped last time), Please pray that she will continue this time and find as much peace and I know I and alot of sisters have.
I posted the link on my facebook timeline and emailed it to six ladies on my email contact list.
Recognize – Refuse and Re-phrase…Amen
Psalm 139:14 I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well.
God bless all of you beautiful sisters, we are blessed to be God’s Masterpiece..
Anna
shared on FB and already get your e-mails. 🙂
Thanks for your encouraging words! I shared with a friend through email!!!
Loved the video. Have been down for a couple of days, and I really needed to hear that. The Confident Heart bible study has helped SO MUCH in battling negative thoughts and doubts. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Oh, I posted the link of Facebook!
ON Facebook……(I’m so OCD about spelling!)
I shared this post on Facebook and I am currently subscribed to get your emails. Enter me in the giveaway , please!
I enjoyed today’s message. I struggle constantly with negative self-talk and taking things others say about me way too personally. It would be wonderful to have the book to read! In all honesty, I don’t want the gift card. Target supports gay pride festivals and other gay causes so I have chosen not to shop there anymore. Not any easy choice because I like Target, but one God convicted me to make. Blessings to you Renee and Jennifer and please contiue the encouraging messages! You are making more positive impact than you know!!
Laura, I have a difficult time with negative self talk and taking things too personally also.
What others think of me and say of me eat me up some days….so you are not alone.
I have to constantly remind myself what God thinks/says about me!
About a 1000 times a day honestly. I am getting better about believing it!
Renee’s bible study has a been a huge step in helping me realize that, and find some relief.
I don’t know about you, but I need to be reminded daily!
Thank you for being honest! Bless you!
Em thank you so much for your response and encouragment!!
Without going into details, I am going through some really tough stuff right now. You’re words brought me to tears, but that’s okay because that’s God’s healing. I really needed to read your words and be reminded that I’m not alone. That’s another lie, that your alone and no one cares. And yes, I too need to be reminded daily (and sometimes it feels like every minute of the day) of what God thinks/says about me. I have been trying read Renee’s book and do the study, but “things” keep getting in the way of it. That must mean I really need to read it! God bless you for being sensitive to HIs leading in responing to me!!
Hi Renee,
I would love a chance at this giveaway. I have posted the link to my facebook and I have subcribed to your e-mails, a while back. Thank you for your encouragement and support.
Hi Girls
WOW I love both of your stories, and I am looking forward to meeting you both in October on the cruise. My mom spoke for me when I was 15 I had my mouth wired shout as I had my bottom jaw brought forward, and I could not speak for 6 weeks. One day my older sister came upstairs wearing my brand new shirt that I had not even worn yet, and I make noise and got my moms attention, back then I had a chalk board I could write on, so I told he the my sister could not wear that shirt as it was mine, so my mom told my sister to take it off and not touch anything that was not hers. Still to this day I loved that my mom stood up for me, she is my rock. My parents always told us girls, the world is your oyster, do what God has given you to do. I have been an accountant since I was 20, now as I turned 48 and reflect on all the people I have helped with my book keeping skills, I am thankful God has lead me in this direction. I have been the treasurer for our church for 8 years and I love it.
See both of you in a few months and thank you for sharing your stories today.
I finished A Confident Heart, I have always had confidence in God all my life.
Barb
I forgot to mention I posted your link on my facebook.
Thank you! Shared this on Facebook and emailed my sister.
What a good study – one I needed to hear. Thank you Jennifer for the encouragement and the 3 R’s!. I am getting better but I still hold on too much to what people say about me and how they see me. I volunteered to hold devotions where I work and I plan to share from your book, Renee. The more I read it, the more it will sink in and become second nature. I have your book on my Kindle so it is easy for me to revisit Chapter 12 and other highlights to feed on God’s truth! I hope you host a summer lesson! I am already subscribed to your emails!
Renee, I shared the link on my facebook page. I have many christian friends whom I think will enjoy reading this link. Thank you. I also am very interested in reading Jennifer’s books. I also want you to know that A Confident Heart was my first online Bible study and I have really been enjoying it! Thank you!
Shared on Facebook! I have read Self Talk, Soul Talk & bought an extra copy & shared with my best friend. She also loved the book. Would love to have another copy to share. Have been subscribed to your emails & look forward to them