Today I want you to meet my sweet and amazing friend Jennifer Rothschild. Jennifer is a wife, mom, national speaker, founder of WomensMinistry.net and author of several books, including “Self-talk, Soul-talk: What to Say When You Talk to Yourself“ as well as “Me, Myself and Lies Bible Study.“
She is also speaking with me on the Girls GetAway Cruise in October {and we’d love for you to join us!! – more details below}. For now, turn up your volume, click on the arrow and join us for some girl-talk:
- Recognize – Recognize if your self-talk matches up with God’s thoughts.
- Refuse – Refuse any self-talk that is not consistent with God’s words.
- Re-phrase – Re-phrase negative thoughts to align with scripture. Tell yourself the TRUTH, and nothing but God’s truth!
When we take these 3 steps, God begins to erase negative self-talk and lies. Speaking of erasers, Jennifer needed one that morning. Before we met, she bent over to pick something up, and hit her eye on the edge of the desk. {Cringe} She had a video shoot that afternoon, and a lovely black eye. So, I whipped out what I call my “magic eraser” makeup and covered it up. Look. You cannot even see the deep dark purple mark under her eye.
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This is a great word and so needed today! Many of us are bombarded with negatives in our families, jobs and everyday lives and being able to recognize, refuse and rephrase these negative thoughts, words and deeds is crucial to walking out our journey with Christ. God is right beside us. He hears us and knows exactly what we need. He wants us to know and always remember that what He says about us is the truth, the gospel and all that we need to focus on! Thank you Renee and Jennifer for the word, the reminders and being obedient to God and following His will by sharing with all of us. God bless you both!
Thank you for this sweet video and message! Something I needed to hear and I really appreciate it! I will be on the cruise in October and look forward to seeing both of y’all! Very exciting!!
The (3) R’s….what a great tool….I know I will use them next time my self talks negative stuff to me….
-Recognize
-Refuse
-Rephrase
Thank you!
I did not hear such encouraging words as the two of you did from your mothers when I was growing up. I try as often as I can to make sure speak I them to my daughters and son. Thank you Jennifer for that reminder that we do have a choice and do not have to accept the negative things people say to and about us. I am so thankful we have a God who,loves us and calls us His own.
Thank you Renee for this study. It has been such a blessing and am sorry to see it end!
Thank you for sharing the video, words-what we need to learn to use well from an early age. now to get practicing thinking and speaking the true words that God intended for me. thank you for this study, it has been great and I needed it.
Renee,
Thank you, again, for your transparency. Your story keeps touching my heart and this study has truly erased some of the black marks on my heart. Thank you and God bless.
Chelsea
Thank you for another video. Thank you for your book A Confident Heart. I am learning so much about myself. I am learning something in every chapter.
Thanks for sharing this video with us – it was wonderful.Jennifer is such an amazing woman with such great insight. I am going to be working on using those 3 R’s!
Praying for your family.
Love YOU to pieces! 🙂
Susan G.
just watched jennifer’s video on self talk, soul talk and managed to share that. Thanks for sharing and being such an inspiration to others.
Thats good. had to ring a friend today, with a “I don’t want to live the rest of my life on my own” to which she said that, that’s not true because God is with me and she sent me a text (after i lost the phone conection) with Psalm 34: 18 ” The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit ” I wish it was always that straight forward to just pick up the phone, say “____” , and the truth just played back with a verse of encouragement!
I tried to share the video on facebook but I couldn’t.
oh how gracious is our Father!! How much He knows we need encouragement! I just can never say thank you enough for all you have & continue to share Renee! Like apples of gold in settings of silver…. 😀
I shared this “triple R” link to encouragement will all my friends on facebook.
I just so needed this post this week, am very discouraged and feeling under attack. Seems like I struggle just to put one foot in front of the other, on so many levels right now.
Thank you, Renee, for sharing so much of your life and the lives of your friends. It’s always a blessing to be able to identify with someone who has been through some of the same difficulties. Through this study I have been able to admit that I’m not “fine” and that I need prayer and encouragement to get through the difficult times. While driving to the grocery store, I was encouraged by one song (I’ll Take You Back, Lift Me Up, Your Love Never Fails) after another. Matthew West’s song “Hello, My Name Is……Child of the One True King” brought tears. When I start to have negative thoughts while driving, I love to tune into a Christian station and hear God’s promises through music. My prayers are with you and your family.
Thank you Renee for sharing the Video, so needed to see that today. I am enjoying the study tremendously and would you believe that I have had so many distractions thorough out the study from Satan almost not wanting me to continue, but I fight back these attacks with scripture and prayer, all negative thought’s and words disappear through positive scripture. We are VICTOURIOS through Christ. Praying for you and your family…God Bless you!
Great message! I really need this today. Yesterday was a day full of negative self chatter and thankfully between yesterdays devotion on Proverbs 31 and your book, I was able to turn to God’s words and promises to help me not be a total mess. I am so thankful to have a list of God’s promises now because that is something that I had been searching for so I can know them, memorize them, and turn to them when I am beating myself up. Thanks, Renee and please know your I am praying for your family.