I have something really important to tell you today. Lean in close. Really let this get past your self-doubts and into those assurance-seeking places in your heart…
Yes you. The beautiful one sitting there looking at the screen.
I know it’s hard to believe sometimes, but it’s true. You fill God’s heart with absolute joy and every day you take His breath away with your smile.
Just a slight glance in His direction makes Him pause. He loves the unique way you do things. He really enjoys watching others love on you and bring out His best in you. And He’s not critical of your mistakes like you sometimes think, or waiting for you to do something productive. He simply delights in you because you are His. And that is enough.
It took me 20 years to understand and 10 more years to truly believe this was the reality of God’s love for me. The same was true for my friend Sheri Rose Shepherd who I’ve asked to be a girlfriend guest blogger with us today. Like many of you, I’ve been blessed by God’s words written through her, so today I’m giving away a copy of her book, “His Princess.“ More about that in a minute.
Sheri Rose is a woman who can relate to almost any woman’s battle. A former Mrs. United States, she grew up in a dysfunctional home and was severely overweight as a teen. As a young woman, she battled depression and an eating disorder. In spite of an English teacher telling her she was “born to lose” and a learning disorder—Dyslexia—Sheri Rose has (in God’s strength) become a Best Selling and award-winning author. Sheri Rose is also an internationally known speaker and Bible life coach.
Today, in my devotion on P31 and Crosswalk, I shared about God’s lavish love for us and how He wants us to live “loved” because we are. Then I asked Sheri Rose to share with us what she believes is the most important thing for women to know, so we can grasp the depth of God’s love for us. Here is what she said:
People often ask me, “How did you break free from your painful past and the lies and learn to embrace truth.” To be honest, I still have to fight the lies I’ve believed about myself. It seems to be the battle each woman I have met faces.
Many of us have experienced what I call “Spiritual Identity Theft.” We’ve somehow lost our confidence in who we are in Christ, and we feel worthless or wounded by someone’s words.Others of us hold in our hearts a false identity. We believe a lie about ourselves and we have allowed that lie to define us.
I understand what it is like to feel worthless and walk with a wounded heart from hurtful words. Perhaps you’re just recognizing the root of the lie you have been living in.Maybe it was hurtful words spoken to you by a father or mother, brother or sister, teacher, boyfriend or husband. Maybe it was an employer who thoughtlessly felt like dumping lies on you.
I don’t think those hurtful words are easily forgotten but I do know healing and wholeness can become reality in our lives when we learn how to embrace God’s truth.You do not have to let others’ hurtful words define you anymore. They did not give their life, as Jesus did, to prove your worth. We are Daughters of the King of Kings whether we feel like it or not.
Let me be a spiritual mentor and give you the three keys to unlocking lies and finding your true identity, I call it “a truth makeover.”
1. Know the Truth. You Are…
- Chosen By God (John 15:16)
- A New Creation (2 Corinthians 5:17)
- Holy and Pure (1 Peter 2:9)
- A Trophy of His Grace (Ephesians 2:8)
- His Princess Warrior (2 Timothy 4:7)
- His Beloved Bride (Psalm 45:11)
2. Speak The Truth…
Whenever a lie is spoken to you or a lie enters your mind, speak this Truth out loud…
“That is a lie. My worth is not in what anyone else says about me or what I feel at the moment.”
3. Fast Off Speaking Lies
Try a seven-day fast by not speaking anything negative about yourself or repeating any lies that have been spoken over you or about you. If possible, ask a friend to hold you accountable to speak only truth.
4. Read this Love Letterfrom God:
My Chosen Daughter,You are royalty even when you don’t feel like a princess. How you feel about yourself will never change the truth of who you are in Me. You are My treasure, and I have chosen you. If you ever begin to doubt your significance, just look to the cross and remember I gave my life to prove your worth. I see your heart and I know you fight to find truth. So start by recognizing who I am: the King of Kings and Lord of Lords, and your Daddy in heaven. Saturate yourself in My truth and you will discover how loved and treasured you are.
Love, Your Lord who is Truth
Living Loved Give-away
- 2 Free BibleLife coaching sessions(One winner)
30 days of spiritual mentoring with Sheri Rose
You keep one session and give one away!
- Rest Assured message on CD by Renee Swope
How to Stop Worrying & Start Resting in God’s Promises
2 copies of this message on CD (one winner). You keep one and give one away!
- His Princess: Love Letters from Your King
One book by Sheri Rose Shepherd
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The stress of raising two kids with an unbelieving spouse are hard but when hurtful words are used, it is hard not to let the lies replaces the truth. I struggle so much to stay sane and grow up in my faith despite all the times I've let God down with my anger, attitudes and actions just because it hurts so much.
I would give the copies to my sister, my friend.
Hi, the stress of raising kids and on top of that, raising kids with an unbelieving husband who chips away me and our two kids' self esteem with hurtful words can be overwhelming when we lose sight of how much God loves us. It's a battle and I have to give the Lord my mind to in order to be sane. Too mnay times I just wan to lose it all by giving in to the lies.
I would give the copies to my or sister or friend.
Hi Renee and Sheri, I'm Mary Logan, 40, from Greenville SC.
I would share the life coaching sessions or the CD with my friend Kimberly Robinson. Kim and I encourage each other through email daily, we enjoy sharing and discussing the Proverbs 31 blogs. Our friendship is priceless, we don’t see each other a lot but I can always count on her to encourage me when I am down on myself.
Thanks for sharing your gift.
Mary L
Hi, my name is Leah and I'm 54. I love the topic today. It perfectly fits me – the friendly, out-going person with a gift of hospitality, but who secretly lives with such insecurity that without the love of Christ, would threaten to become frozen by fear of rejection and past regrets. I am so thankful that God snatched me as a little girl up into His arms and held my heart through nearly a lifetime of verbal abuse, oppression and even self-condemnation. And even now has delivered me and is raising me up to fully become the woman He planned for me to be!
I would love to share this with a couple of dear women who, like me, need to be reminded daily of God's loving hand in their lives and how valuable they are to Him. I will pray for God to reveal which one.
I am loved by God , though I'm not as good as some people's standards. And more than that , I love people for who they are and do not dislike them for not meeting my standards .
Oh Renee, I loved your devo and this post! Sheri's words about identity theft hit home and go along with what God's been putting on my heart! Thanks so much for sharing!
As for me, I'm Jill from Iowa and on Friday I'll be 35. I'd share the coaching with my dear friend and mentor trusting it would bless us both as God is putting new adventures on our heart. I'd pass one of the CD's to my good friend, Allison who is a little nervous about adding her 4th child later this month.
Blessings,
Jill
I'm 51 and live in Hawaii. I would share this with my daughter in Oregon who misses me and whom I miss greatly.
Pam
Thanks so much for your P31 devo today! I needed it! I'm Jill from Indiana and I'm 42. I would probably share with a friend who has had been a support for mee through some difficult struggles and has is going through her own trials right now. Thanks.
Hello my name is Jennifer and I live in Texas. Reading your blog today hit me straight in the heart. I've been dealing and working on myself for about a month now. I suffered severe emotional abuse as a child and now at 32 I didn't even feel worthy of Gods love. I'm building a relationship now with God and realizing different. If I were to receive the package I'd share it with my daughter. Thank you and God bless u!
I'm Melissa, 26, from Mississippi. I would love to have any of these prizes to share with my mom. We are just alike and even struggle with similar things sometimes. My current struggle is learning to live loved! This post spoke directly to my heart. My goal this year is to learn to live loved, and really believe how much God loves me. I know it in my head, but I REALLY want to know it deep in my soul.
Dear Renee and Sherri,
My name is Peggy and I just turned 54 yrs. old. I have been married for 32 yrs. and have never been respected by my husband or loved the way a wife should be. Most of the problem stems from my husband's alcohol addiction. I have been physically and emotionally abused by this person, but because I don't believe in divorce, have stayed in the married. My self-esteem, well I'll be honest, what self esteem! I have none. I have isolated myself from almost everyone. My best friend, my mother, passed away 1 yr. ago today.
If I were to receive the 2 bible life coaching sessions I would share one with a friend, Mary Ruth. I would give the CD to my daughter.
Thank you both for your generosity and may God bless you.
Peggy
I'm Jane, 61, living in central Iowa and I have facilitated His Princess 6-week study last year at our church and have given Sheri's books as gifts…..they are so encouraging for women. I would share any giveaway with my friend, Tamera, the mother of four boys
I was thrilled to read your P31 devotion today and associated blog. As usual, the Lord sent His words right on time – when I needed most to hear this reminder. Although I am going thru many trials, I try to remember daily to thank my Father in Heaven before my feet hit the floor in the morning.
I will be 44 in April. I would share the additional copy with my cousin Brenda who is at a difficult spot in her life and just coming to Christ.
Hello Ms. Renee & Ms. Sheri,
My name is Selena and I'm 33 y/o, mother of a 6 y/o boy that I love and adore and a wife to my amazing husband of 14 years. We are currently in Sierra Vista, AZ. I am in a womens bible study that just finished up the book of Jonah with Priscilla Shirer. Image always worrying about things that are out of my control and I have found great comfort in knowing that God will always take care of me even when it is in a different way than I had planned. I would share Living "Loved" with my womens group as well as my sister that is "lost" and trying to find her way. Thank you for this opportunity.
God bless,
Selena
Hi – My name is Kim and I am 49 years old. I live outside of Clayton, NC, in the Cleveland School area.
I would chose my niece Brook and my friend Danielle to share in the bible-coaching and the CDs. They are both single moms, smart, beautiful. But, they struggle with their self-worth, ability as parents, and with feeling overwhelmed. I pray for them a lot.
Thanks for an awesome blog….I too, have fought the lies all my life that I heard growing up in a violent, drunken broken home. God is GREAT–I am loved, and I am worthy!
Thanks, Ladies,
Kim
I just saw Sheri's book not too long ago. I must have it!! I'm adding it to my Amazon cart and buying it with my next order. 🙂
Your words are soothing to my soul today sweet sisters.
I'm Lisa from Texas and I'm forty. Y'all have a great day 😀
Thank you for this message today. I really need to find a way for this to settle in my heart and soul and change my outlook on myself and my life. I have "head knowledge" of God's love but it's hard for that to work it's way into "heart knowledge."
I am forty years old and looking to find God's will for me in this next decade. I live in Missouri and I am a professional with three children and a passion for adoption. I am currently reading "Made to Crave" and I have just discovered your blog and Proverbs 31 Ministries. You are all a blessing to me.
If I win, I will share this gift with my sister. She is just starting her journey as a wife and mother and I think she would love to participate with me.
Thanks for the opportunity.
Lori
Hi there! My name is Rebecca and I'm 36 years old. I live in MS and would love to share the coaching or cds with my sister!
Thanks for sharing some important truth today!
Prayers and blessings,
Rebecca
Hi, my name is Stacey from Georgia, I would love to win the gift pack. If I won I would take one of my great friends who has been a wonderful blessing to me. I would also give her and her husband the extra CD. They have struggled with having a child for a couple of years and needs to know that they are still loved and that God has a great plan for them. My email is [email protected]
Hi there,
My name is Tracy and I am 35. I am a new mom and my heart's desire is to strengthen myself and my self image in the Lord so that the little lady who is watching me so closely will have a Godly rolemodel to follow. I would share this with my mother who has been given a lot to handle in her life and who struggles with feeling loved and a woman to be cherished. She deserately needs a message like this. Thank you for shining God's love and truth in your lives!
Tracy