“So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.”
Hebrews 10:35-36 (NIV)
Have you ever thrown away your confidence? One night I was cleaning our kitchen and found this little rubber thingy on our counter top. It wasn’t until after I threw it away that I realized it was the power button for our TV remote control. As I dug through the trash to find it, I sensed God showing me that’s how easily I throw away my confidence—without recognizing it.
It’s usually very subtle. Sometimes I’ll be thinking about something I want to do or sense God calling me to, and a feeling of uncertainty comes over me and whispers to my heart, You can’t do that. You’re not good enough. Out of the blue, I’ll just get that awful, insecure feeling.
Too many times in the past I’ve gone along with it, tossing my confidence into the trash without even thinking.
So, maybe I should ask again. Have you ever thrown away your confidence?
We throw away our confidence each time we say negative things to ourselves. We trash our security when we allow accusation and condemnation from others to define us. And it breaks God heart.
Can I share an important message and invitation with you? It’ll only take 3 minutes, but it’s the most important part of today’s post. And it’s part of today’s give-away, too. Please click the arrow to watch.
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Can you tell I’m a little passionate about sharing this message with you. It’s because I want you to experience the freedom and confidence Jesus gave this girl – freedom I’d never known – freedom that came as I learned to live in the power and security of God’s promises!
I know what it’s like to feel stuck in a cycle of defeat. I know how much “hopeless” hurts.
As I wrote A Confident Heart, I looked back and saw a pattern in my thinking that led to the pattern of my doubting. And those patterns led me to trash my security and become paralyzed with self-doubt.
But over time, I learned that I could ask God to show me when I’m tempted to throw away my confidence and then help me throw away my insecurities instead.
• When self-doubt whispers, “I can’t do that. I’m going to fail and look foolish.” I’ve learned to throw away that lie away and hold onto this truth (sometimes I even say it out loud): “The Lord is my helper, I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?” (Hebrews 13:6, NIV 1984)
• When self-doubt whispers, “I’ll never change.” I throw away that lie away and claim this truth: “For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in [me] will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 1:6, NASB)
• When self-doubt whispers, “This is too hard for me. I don’t have what it takes to…” I toss that thought and hold onto this truth: “No, in all these things [I am] more than a [conqueror] through him who loved [me].” (Romans 8:37, NIV)
Oh friends, how I long for you to join me in living with A Confident Heart. I want your life to be transformed through the Truths God engraved on my soul to share with you in each chapter.
That is why we’re praying over each book and each person who reads it, asking Jesus to use His words on each page to change your life as you read them. To make hope rise again in your heart. To bring encouragement where discouragement has settled. And set you free from any and all cycles of doubt and defeat so you can live with A Confident Heart!
Will you pray with me? Lord, I want to become a woman with a confident heart in Christ. Will you help me recognize when I throw away my confidence, and remind me to throw away my insecurities instead? I want to persevere in Your truth so that when I have done Your will, I will receive what You have promised. When doubt or insecurity tells me I can’t do something, I will remember that all things are possible to her who believes. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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A Confident Heart Give-Away
Enter to win 3 copies of A Confident Heart as well as a gift card and my message, “Don’t Throw Away Your Confidence” on CD- by clicking on “Share Your Thoughts” below. I’d love to know one thing in the book trailer or in my P31 devotion that you could identify with, also is there someone or somewhere you’ll share today’s post? We’d love for others to hear about A Confident Heart through you! And to make it easy, there are “Tell A Friend” buttons just below this post.
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Last week’s winners of the “Contagious Confidence” winners
which include a copy of “A Confident Heart” along with “Confident Heart” sticky notes that have quotes and promise from my book and Starbucks gift cards are: Kelli Wommack, Debra and Stephanie Melton. We’ve got your email from your comments so we’ll be in touch to get your address.
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I can’t wait to read this book. I have struggled with self-doubt all my life.
God’s timing is amazing! I’ve always had low self-esteem and it’s kept me from venturing out to try new things and even build relationships with other people for fear of getting hurt. This has been most evident over the past several weeks as I’ve been going through a difficult time lately and have found it hard to ask and accept help from others. Renee, I started to read the first chapter of your book that you provide here on your web site and three pages in I had to stop because of the tears. I so need this right now, and as afraid as I am to take this step of faith, I really feel this is orchestrated by God and I don’t want to miss out on the opprtunity to be healed from past hurts and to gain new confidence in the Lord. I would appreciate your prayers. Thanks.
Blessings!
Dale
I was sent a link to the site from a friend. I have been struggling with issues of confidence my whole life, as you said in the video, confidence in my appearance, in my ability to succeed in new endeavors, in relationships. Recently I have been doubting myself in my job, fearing my coworkers thought of me as a joke. As I talked to a coworker and friend she promised to send me the link to Proverbs31 and I am so glad she did! Grew up in a Christian home so I never doubted God’s involvement in my life, but I see that I need to turn toward the light in my dark times so as to avoid my doubts! I look forward to not only reading you new book, but to following the site and sharing with other women!
Need to read more about how my worry shows I’m doubting God.
I just finished reading the last day of the 7 day devotion. It was a wonderful blessing and full of truth. I have reccommended it to my sister and a few ladies in our church. Thank you so much for following God’s leading in your life to write this book. I know that it will be a blessing to all who will read it. I can’t wait to get my own copy. 🙂 Have a great day!
I could most idenify with you doubting your husband’s faithfulness. My husband has never given me a reason to doubt that he would stay with me, but I feel like I don’t measure up in the area of looks or personality, so many times I still question whether I am enough for him and if he loves me enough to stay with me.
Thanks Renee! I am working on my God-fidence. I am a work in progress like many others and really appreciate the types of books that P31 makes available to us through people like you. I hope I’m a winner!!!
As I sit here searching the internet for more Christian blogs to follow- I stumble upon yours. You are added to my favorite blogs now. Thank you so much for your encouraging words- I believe that this book is just what I need to read. I have had those same thoughts of not being good enough, smart enough, etc. Thank you for opening my eyes to erase those thoughts and begin thinking the way the God wants me to think. Many Blessings, Krystal
I love your heart and the message God has given it to encourage the hearts of so many women.
I lost my confidence at a very young age due to being sexually abused by my cousin and my mother being aware of it and not doing anything about it. I felt I wasn’t worth “rescuing” and from there on the cycle of doubt and insecurity perpetuated throughout middle school, high school, and college as I continued to put my confidence in the hands of others and allowed them to determine if I was “worth it” or not.
God has been working on me since and I have come a long way praise God but those doubts and insecurities still surface from time to time. I could completely relate to what you said in your trailer about being a young bride and doubting your husband’s faithfulness. I have experienced that in my marriage and am slowly realizing that it stems from the trauma of my past and not due to my husband’s actions or intentions.
I would love to read your book in God’s perfect time. God bless you and your gift sweet sister in Christ!
Thank you for the giveaway. I have always been a worrier, it is hard work everyday to deal with it. Your facebook posts seem to be just what I need to hear day after day. Thank you.
I have always been a worrier and self doubter. Now that I’m a mom I constantly compare myself to other moms and I hate that. I can’t wait to read your book!
You said you would like to know ONE thing I could identify with in your book trailer or devotion – ummmmm, how ’bout the ENTIRE content of both!!! LOL
I laugh, but I truly struggle with this. I know that it goes back to when I started 5th grade in a new school. Since I didn’t have one of the “certain” two last names and I had not been there since “Day One” (Kindergarten), I was considered and treated like a ‘nobody’.
However, realizing where it started and knowing in my head that it is nothing but LIES from the enemy, doesn’t make it any easier to deal with and get past. I am soooooo looking forward to reading your book and getting scriptures to help me through this. I am even currently attending a program at our church called Celebrate Recovery to help me deal with this issue and move on so I, too, can help others.
Thank you so much for being willing to wait on God’s timing for your book. I appreciate ALL that you had to go through to get to this point and I LOVED meeting you and seeing your “heart” at She Speaks this year.
I will share your post on fb, twitter and on my blogs (www.flashthoughts.wordpress.com & http://www.WATERforKingdomGirls.wordpress.com) and fb page, too.
Working daily on developing my Godfidence 🙂
Thank you for sharing in your devotional. I felt you were speaking directly to me. I have struggled with self-doubt and called it all the things you talk about (worry, fear, etc.). I will be doing the 7 day doubt diet and I need to read your book.
My two other sisters in Christ, Deronda and Nakia, pray together every Sunday night on a conference call, and on this particular night, God revealed his plans for our lives concerning entrepreneurship. We were all excited and seeking God for the next step. On Monday, Deronda and I received an email from Nakia who confessed she had low self-esteem, didn’t think she was good at anything, and even after all of the pouring in we did for each other, she had fear of not being good enough. We called her immediately for intervention and intercession. When we received the devotional from P31 the next day, we were floored!!!! Everything we talked about on that Monday was in the devotional. We were and still are in awe of God. I would love to have this book for all of us so that we could study it together and include it on our Sunday night prayer time. Bless you Renee and your ministry. I’m excited for where God is taking all of us!
Renee,
I finished “A Confident Heart” last night and it was fantastic. I laughed and cried and all in all LOVED it. The verses at the back and the names of God page will make this a reference for years to come. I will recommend your book to all my friends- thank you and God bless!
I was excited to find your book this morning as I was floating around the web. Confidence is my major issue. Most people don’t realize that because I’m a doer, but inside I’m eaten up with doubt. It shows in how I seldom accomplish the stuff that I want to do, the stuff that no one is expecting me to do.
I can’t wait to read more and then share your book with the ladies in my accountability group.
I just wanted to say thank you for everything you do for the ministry of God. I have gone through the 7-day doubt diet, and it has really helped to open my eyes to alot of things in my life that just aren’t right. I thank you for being encouraging and loving in your writing. Thank you for everything and may God bless you richly!!
Renee, I was so glad to get to see your trailer as I’ve never actually heard you speak! I can now put a voice with your words! In the trailer, what spoke to me the most was your story about how God showed you that looking away from Him (the Light) is when you where overcome with doubt and insecurities (large shadow) and fear. I can totally relate! It kind of reminds me of when Peter walked on the water to Jesus and only started to sink when he took his eyes off Christ! Thank you for the reminder and I can’t wait to get a copy of your book! Your ministry and P31 ministries have been a blessing to me and my co-workers as I forward the daily devotionals I get to them all! Thank you again and God bless you and your family!
Thank you for sharing:)
I needed to hear ■John 1:12 I am God’s child.
I would love to have signed copy of your book.
There are times when I still find myself standing in that shadow of insecurity. It paralyzes me and often there are missed opportunities because I do not step out of the shadow.
I am going to put this book on my list of “must reads” to give me that extra push when I find myself being surrounded by darkness. I also was talking to an old college friend last week who recently lost her job and has had trouble finding new employment. She is sinking into the depths of despair thinking these same things…she isn’t good enough…she has disappointed her family, etc. I am going to send her the link to this devotional and maybe even get her the book to help point her the way to the light.