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Have you ever noticed how something can happen or someone can say something and all of the sudden thoughts like “I’m not good enough” or “What is wrong with me?” will trigger a string of negative emotions?
Then, before you know it that awful, yucky feeling of self doubt comes over you and makes you want to shrink back in a corner. Self-doubt is like a bully. It makes us feel small, inadequate, less than and insecure.
But we don’t have to put up with being bullied anymore. We can live as more than a conqueror through HIM who loves us and gave His life up for us!
I’ve got a short video message to share from my NEW”Confident Heart” DVD . I recorded it to equip and empower you to stop letting doubt and discouragement beat you up and start letting God and His Word build you up instead!
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Go to New life 91.9 I think you can listen to the video there. http://www.newlife919.com/confident-heart/
Good Morning Renee! On my way to work this morning I had a conversation in which I doubted my abilities in my job. I recently moved into a position where I am now the one in charge and have to make the decisions – BIG JUMP FOR ME! Others have numerous times told me I am capable of this task, now I just have to place it at God’s feet and know that he will guide my steps. Thank you for this devotional and time of reflection on my professional life. I’m looking forward to what God has in store but at the same time extremely nervous!
I know I fail in keeping God in focus. I need this so much. My hope starts out in the Lord but when nothing seems to happen then in come the doubts. Help me Lord to hold on to you and be strong in you. I pray this in Jesus name. Amen. I need more of you Lord. fill me with your thoughts and your word Lord. Take hold of me and keep your word in front of me. Lord by my strength for I am weak.
My post was to say I have 4 and half weeks of school to finish first clinical is tomorrow. ugh,I have read all your post and will pray I promise.
My mom has only been gone
three months in heaven and I have 4 and half weeks to go.
Taking care of my mom and having to watch her suffer, took my heart and crushed it to more self doubt then I ever had. We had trained nurses but they where so short staff I had to do a lot of the unknowns for my mom. And then she passed away my family was so wonderful to allow me to be with her till they end. When I got back I signed up for college and then the self doubt has made me have panic attaches and feeling so over whelmed. Its been 30 plus years since I have been in school I am taking CNA classes so I can learn how to make someone else mom safe and my secure.Reading about self doubt and how to over coming it,will be a process just like college I attend on finishing pass or fail finishing the class is my goal. Please pray for me and I also have a older son we are not sure why he is sick and doctor have no clue feeling outof sorts with this also. I know when I pray GOD says my child I have been waiting for you to guide you threw the right path.thank you all for praying.
Alice, be encouraged. God will never leave you or forsake you. I want to share this verse with you: Isaiah 26:3-4 You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in YOu. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord is the Rock eternal. Allow this passage to encourage you to focus your thoughts on the Almighty. Reaffirm your trust in Him today and experiecne the peace that this kind of trust brings. I will keep praying for you. Hold on to God’s promises my sister. Much Love!
What awesome encouragement from all of the previous posts about today’s devotional. This is just so timely, as I have order the book Confident Heart in early spring and have only started studying it a few weeks ago in preparation to launch out into a ministry Godhas called me into. As I step out to minister to abused women and at-risk children, I know that I need to be prepared to be able to share with them effectively. I have had doubts over this work I have been called to do since I didn’t think I have experienced abuse in a way that I can relate to these women. But Confident Heart has everything one could want to share with these women that I will come in contact with. I look forward to the sessions and I pray that God will do a might work of transformation in each and everyone of us that participates in this study. I love you all and wish you a good and godly day. Much love!
I grew up hearing I was stupid or worse, whenever I did something wrong or frustrated my father. I now replay those same messages, to myself, when I make a mistake. I hate it and try to replace those messages with positive thoughts of how God see’s me but it is hard. I hate it that those thoughts still come. Thank you for the reminder, in your devotional today, that I am somebody in God’s economy. God bless you!
Thanks, Renee for this devotional. I need to be reminded daily of my worth to God. I slip so easily into self doubt. God’s promises help me to live the confident life He has for me. I love Jeremiah 29:11. God has a plan for me. He promises to give me a future and a hope.
Love this devotional but the video says “This video is private”. I am looking forward to this next OBS-it will be my first as a fb Small Group Leader and I have been focusing on staying in the word so thoughts of self doubt do not cause me to doubt my abilities to lead. I know in and of myself I am NOT equiped to do this but God equips those HE calls–I know I have a wonderful Proverbs 31 OBS team to guide me! I’ll check back later to see if the video becomes available 🙂
God Bless you today and always!
AMAZING, just amazing. God uses P31 to send just the message I need. I have said, “Yes” to God with a big committment to a ministry. Now a few weeks after saying, Yes, I can feel the devil nudging me with small whispers of doubt as to how well I will fulfill this exciting role. Thank you for your committment to bring God’s promises through His Word into our lives. Just the encouragement I need and the determination to listen only to God and to sluff off the evil one.
I read the devotional but your video says that it’s private, so it won’t let me view it. I am a woman who lets what I think about myself invade my thoughts, instead of what God thinks about me. During the Yes to God OBS, I said yes to God in starting to let what HE thinks about me, overpower what I think about me. So going from the Yes to God OBS to the Confident Heart OBS is going to be wonderful for me. I am very excited about it! 🙂
Thank you for the reminders. I know God is more than enough and I am who He made me to be, but “life” can make me think otherwise sometimes. It’s great to be reminded of these important truths!
I was sitting here drinking coffee and trying to post pone starting my graduate work a little while. It’s had not to play the comparison game when you’re infertile and 6 babies have been born in your group lately – why am I having to do grad school work when they get to be a stressed out mama with a little one? It’s hard walking the different path.
Just need to hang onto God right now a little bit tighter and discard my soundtrack for his.
Couldn’t see the video because it says it is PRIVATE – hope to see it soon though.
Tracey, how difficult for you. Hopefully, you will have your own little one “in God’s time”…I will pray for you as I am praying for my daughter-in-law, who has been trying to conceive for over a year now. While my other daughter-in-law announces she is pregnant with her second…
I am who I am…..and sometimes that doesn’t feel like enough. Sometimes I wish I were more patient, more corageous, bold, more of a go getter, and the list goes on and on……
What’s awesome about Gideon’s story is that, he knew where he came from, he didn’t feel “good enough” either, and yet God chose him to make something big happen. So, why not me, right? God will do great things through me. He is gonna use me to win battles and even though I don’t feel equipped or even ready, God sees me for me and that’s good enough for me. Getting ready for the adventures that are called LIFE.
Amen and amen!! Prayign Jer. 2911:14 for you tonight Norma 🙂
I never want my doubts to hold me back from accomplishing God’s will for me! He is strong when I am weak. You have reminded me how important it is to focus on how GOD sees me, more that how I see me. He sees my potential, His creation, His plan…I see my fears and failures, my doubts, my insecurities. My prayer for everyone reading your message today, is that we would all see ourselves through His eyes.
Amen, praying with you and for you Karen!
When my family tells me I am. There is nothing more able to make me feel self doubt then when the ones I love heap it on me. Bummer!!
Liz, I just want to encourage you today that we are NOT to live for the approval of men, but for God. HE is your judge, not your family. I grew up always being criticized and judged for things I did-even as a kid. Kids are supposed to make mistakes, but after a while you just start thinking that you are an overall terrible person. This has continued into my adult life, where I still struggle with condemning attitudes of the people that are supposed to love me unconditionally no matter what. There is NO CONDEMNATION in Christ. We need to start countering those negative thoughts with the TRUTH of God’s Word, and who HE says we are. It doesn’t matter what they think. I did this study this past spring with Renee and it was so helpful, and I pray it would help you too! Blessings.
Liz, I am so sorry for what you are surrounded by. That is very hard. I have been in very toxic environments and it takes a lot of endurance to walk away, not listen or not let their opinions have the power to defeat us.
I would LOVE for you to read the book with us in the P31 Online Study. I think it would really help you hear God’s voice and encouragement and confidence in you – over all the other’s criticism. And it would give you the courage to set boundaries for your heart and thoughts – and help you see that when others are critical in a habitual way, it’s not a reflection of your brokenness but theirs.
Here’s a link to find out more about the study: http://proverbs31.org/online-bible-studies/
Praying you’ll join us!
I’m very good at giving the appearance of great confidence. I might even be good at it but, no one else here’s the voice in my head saying all the negative things. The voice that gets me distracted from doing what I know I should. I just finished the When Women Say Yes OBS & I admit I wasn’t ready to leave my FB group behind. They are all so awesome. So, I signed up for this study. I got so very much out of the last I knew this would be good too. But after reading today’s blog I KNOW it’s what I need. Thank you. I’m looking forward to our study.
Stela, Im so glad you are going to be part of the next study of A Confident Heart. It’s a great next step after saying “Yes to God” 🙂 And I love that you love your FB group. Community isn’t such an important part of our faith journey!
Thanks Renee. I’m excited to start & to continue to grow.
I read your devotional on P31 but the video wouldn’t load.. For me self-doubt comes when I feel like I’ve failed as a mother or wife. Not being able to keep my home in order makes me feel less confident in my abilities to help others outside of my home.
I couldn’t see the video either. It say it’s private.
Same here – couldn’t see the video 🙁
I couldn’t view the video either.
I couldn’t see the video either.
I can’t see the video either, message “it’s private” is poping up
yep me neither says it is private for me too 🙂
Go to this link…it was shared and worked for me 🙂 http://www.newlife919.com/confident-heart/
I agree with Rebecca that my self-doubts come from feeling like I have failed as a mother/wife. Being in an unequally yoked marriage (but a very strong marriage to a wonderful man), I haven’t felt like I could put God first in our home and with how we raised our children. My children are grown and are wonderful people, but I wish they were closer to God. I now see how I was fooled by Satan, and did not express fully my relationship with God to my family because of his lies to me. After finishing the last OBS on saying Yes to God, I am slowly breaking those old habits of keeping God to myself and looking for those moments to share Him very matter-of-factly; not in-your-face judgmental, but more look-at-how-God-is-working-in-my-life moments. I feel a weight coming off of me and I think my family had been searching for this as well as I see very small changes, but yet positive changes. God forgive me for wasting all those years in moments in what I thought was the right way. I’m praising You for the changes that are coming and for Your whispers in my ears — not Satan’s.
(I also could not access the video…)
Your response could have been written by me! I spent most of my life feeling “less than.” A truly godly marriage should build us each up, but a couple who are unequally yoke creates a lot of destruction. I lived most of my life feeling like I was walking on eggshells, if you know what I mean. Yet God in his great mercy is setting me free and He is working on my husband also. I did the best I knew how to do with my children. Now I have to entrust them to the God who loves them even more than I do.
I can tell you love God, but like me, you lacked the confidence you need to live your life “out loud” for God. Isn’t it wonderful that God doesn’t see us as failures, but when He looks at you, He sees Jesus in you.
I’m praying you grow stronger every day! Blessings my dear sister.
Thank you Renee Swope for your book, A Confident Heart and for your blog. I love P31 Ministries.
Thank you for your words of encouragement, Barbara. Sometimes it’s hard to remember that we’re not alone in the struggle. I’m holding fast to what I learned in the last study and am trying to say Yes to God even in the smallest of details, and am already seeing victories. Will be praying for you as well, that we hold onto His strength as we move forward. Thanks for reaching out to me.
So so sorry we had troubles with the video. I fixed it earlier today and it should be accessible now 🙂
Thanks you for grace and for stopping by. Praying God blesses you big through His message today!
If you click on the lesson title within the email, it will take you to the website where you can then view the video.
Good morning Renee, I love when God sends people at just the right time. I have been struggling so hard with feeling useless and worthless. After reading your daily encouragement it made me realize that I stand in marvel of God’s creations all the time. I admire the beauty of all things God created. You made me realize that I am one of those creations and God does not create flawed things. This is going to help me every time anything makes me feel less than. Thank you for delivering God’s message to me this morning.