because failure produces wisdom when we ask for it
and maturity when we learn from it.”
In my Proverbs 31 Ministries devotion today, I shared this truth and how God’s used it to teach me how to “get up again” when failure threatened to keep me down. I also shared about a fun give-away I have today but before we get to those details, I want to invite those of you who are new to my blog to sign up for my FREE “7-Day Doubt Diet” devotions in my sidebar.
These devotions are for friends like you! They include a week’s worth of encouragement and practical ways to lose the weight of self-doubt. And they’ll also give you a peek inside my book before it releases because they include some of my favorite parts of A Confident Heart.
I also wanted to give you some promises that will help us re-define our perspective! As I shared in my devotion, following Jesus is not about avoiding failures and being perfect. It’s about accepting our weaknesses and becoming more dependent on God’s perfect love and power at work in us.
In Chapter 12 of “A Confident Heart I’ve included a chart of thirty-one promises to replace our defeating doubts with God’s empowering perspective. Here are a few for you to print and carry with you when you need His help to get up again – in your heart and in your thoughts:
When I Say: I don’t know what to do.
God Says: I will direct your steps. Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Prov. 3:5–6, NIV)
When I Say: My life is too hard.
God Says: Let Me help you. I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. (Ps. 91:15, NIV)
When I Say: I can’t do it.
God Says: Rely on My strength and you can do all that I’ve called you to do. I have strength for all things in Christ Who empowers me. (Phil. 4:13 AMP)
When I Say: I’m too afraid.
God Says: I have not given you a spirit of fear.For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline. (2 Tim. 1:7 NLT)
When I Say: I can’t forgive myself.
God Says: I forgive you. God is faithful and reliable. If we confess our sins, he forgives them and cleanses us from everything we’ve done wrong. (1 John 1:9 GW)
I hope you’ll print and carry these with you! Why not put a copy on your mirror, in your car and in your purse? Also, I hope you’ll enter to win my “Getting Up Again” give-away (a signed advance-release copy of A Confident Heart, aGoBible®to listen to God’s Word on the go, and a copy of the 31-verse promise chart from my book.) To enter, just sign up for the doubt diet and invite a friend or two to join you!
Just like a regular diet, having someone else to pray and encourage each other is so good, especially when it comes to losing the weight of self-doubt! And, here’s an invitation you can send them via email or post on your blog or FB page:
Invite a Friend, it’s easy!
Do you want to join me in losing the weight of discouragement and self-doubt?Renee Swope, from Proverbs 31 Ministries is offering a FREE “7-day Doubt Diet”. Just click here to enter your information in her sidebar, and you’ll receive a week’s worth of devotions from her upcoming book, A Confident Heart. Let me know so we encourage one another the week they come out.
- Sign up for the doubt diet – it’s easy to do in my sidebar.
- Encourage a friend(s) to join you via email, FB, Twitter, etc. You can use easy invite above.
- Click on the word “comments” below this post.
- Let me know your name, that you’ve signed up for the Doubt Diet and invited friends.
- To find out if you win, leave your email in your comment, sign up for email updates or follow me on Facebook. I’ll announce the winner next Monday.
The “7-Day Doubt Diet” releases June 27th. For more details click here.
A Confident Heart releases August 1. You can pre-order it here or anywhere you love to buy books. All pre-orders through Proverbs 31 Ministries will be signed by me and book proceeds go back to P31. If you have any problems ordering on our P31 site, you can call our office at 704-849-2270 and they’ll be happy to help.
smalltownmom461 says
Thank you for sharing what the Lord is laying on your heart! Excited for the devotion and your book!
Courtney says
Thank you so much for these devotions! I'm excited for your new book and posted about it on my Twitter! I pray that God will use this book to touch many women!
Courtney
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T_Mac says
I have invited my friends to join. I am, Tamieka McGibbon (Tami Mac) 🙂
T_Mac says
Thank you so much for your devotional this morning. For way too long, I have been on a steady diet of Doubt and now I want to feed on God's promises that say that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
I have shared the devotional with my spiritual partner and sisters. Thank you again.
Robin says
I am looking forward to reading your book… and doing your weekly devotions.. The 7 day Doubt diet sounds like something I am going to enjoy.. I will gladly pass this along to friends
Anonymous says
Would just like to be more confident…feel like I am in a hole spinning and sinking…
Keri says
I would love to win this! I am just know trying to get into a good devotional habit.
kathi from sc says
I signed up for the diet and shared with a friend. The blog is great and the book sounds awesome!
Nichole says
I am a new christian. I was introduced to Proverbs 31 Ministries from a dear friend. I love the inspiration on facebook everyday. I am very excited about your new book. Thank you. Nichole
Stephanie says
I signed up for the doubt diet and shared on my facebook page. I think this might be just what I need right now. Thank you.
StillyBee says
Looking forward to your 7 day devotional Diet Renae! I posted a link earlier today and will repost it again . I am signed up for the Diet devotional as well.
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edlina & the lynns says
Yes, how we all need to be more confident each day as God's women. Thank you for your encouragement.
Kerry says
[email protected] I have signed up for the 7 day self doubt diet. I have invited a few friends to join me. I hope I win your giveaway. I could use some good news for a change. Thank you fro what you do.
Loved by God says
I am so excited for your book to come out!!!! I posted a status on Facebook & when my friends get discouraged I'll definitely be sharing the information!!
Amber Hoop
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Heidi J. says
I have signed up and emailed friends re the doubt diet. I will be ordering the book in July when my budget allows. Thank you for your ministry!
Sandy says
I am so excited about this doubt diet. I have issues with that subject on many levels. Others have confidence in me but I want that confidence from God. Anticipating reading the book.
Prayers and blessings to you.
[email protected]
alishaparla says
This speaks right to my heart. I am constantly second guessing in my ability to be a mother and wife that God has called me to be. Thank you for the encouragement.
I signed up for the Doubt Diet. My email is [email protected]
Terry says
Hi Renee, Thanks so much for the devotionals. You have been a great blessing in the lives of many. I have signed up for the 7 day diet and I'm really excited. I've invited a lot of my friends to join me in this study. I pray they will. I'm expecting great things through this study. I'm looking forward to reading Confident Heart.
God bless you in all that you do.
Terry
Anonymous says
God always knows when I need to hear a devotion, I've had a rough week of insecurity, feelings of letting others down. I've allowed my own expectations of myself to be distorted. Excited about the "7 day diet of doubt", looking forward to some life applications that speak truth into my heart.
[email protected]
Anonymous says
Hi Renee! I signed up for your 'doubt diet'. After hearing you again this past weekend, I know there is still so much I need to learn on my walk. I will be chatting this up and inviting friends to sign up too. I would love to win a copy of your book too!
Enjoy today!
[email protected]
RxDrMom says
I can't wait to read these devotions! I signed up, and shared the invitation on my facebook. Thanks for the giveaway- it sounds wonderful!
Flutterby says
Renee, your words today were tidy well-known affirmations that I have subscribed to for years. However, when I went to print them out to keep them posted around as you suggested, I had nothing but complications in the process…technology I am very proficient in was frustrating me to tears! Then I realized I was asking myself the questions in your affirmations…and I once again bowed my head & heart to his dominion. Thank you…and I really can't wait to see you on Friday! I have shared your invite by email & on fb, and signed up for your DoubtDiet and updates. Huggs, Linda Evans
Melanie Shannon says
So looking forward to the 7-Day Doubt diet. Will be referring my friends.
Prayers & blessings for you!
Melanie
Wanda says
I catch myself saying things like this (in my head) sometimes.
Love the whole book idea. Awesome!
Angie Gullett says
I really could use this book, since I lost my job last year, I have had a lot of doubts about myself and what God wants me to do.
Thanks, Angie
my email is [email protected]
Kristina says
I'm so excited for the week's worth of devotions and then your book!! It looks like a book I've needed for quite some time now. Thank you for listening to Him and writing His words for us! I shared a link on FB and will be praying that it will draw others to your site too! I'll be praying for you and for how this will work in the lives of many. Sending prayers and blessings.
Kristina
Jagette says
Renee,
I am already signed up for all your stuff. Enjoy following you were ever I can find you. Am telling everyone about your Doubt Diet and book. Would sure like to win!!!
Hugs and Prayers.
Just me~Bobbie Jo says
This looks like something I really could use. Can't wait to see where God leads. Thank-you for being such a blessing.
Jodi Escapule says
I just can't wait for your book to be released, June 27th is almost here! I am amazed how God has used P31 to meet so many needs I have pushed down and felt guilty for even having…I'm a child of God how could I possibly have some of the feelings and thouhts I have??
I have signed up for the 7 day diet. I have invited my mother, mother in law, sister, BFF & 2 co workers to join me.
Hope I got it all in there!
[email protected]
Terrilynn says
I'm signed up for the Doubt Diet and am looking forward to it! I shared the information on FB as well – I really hope it will encourage other women to join in!!
Dawn says
I needed your devotion this morning! I follow you on facebook and signed up for the doubt diet. Thank you for the encouragement!
Cassandra Sines says
I would love to have this book. I have previously signed up for the Doubt Diet; follow you on FB and invited a friend to do it with me.
cassandra.sines at gmail dot com
Deb says
Renee, thank you for the words of encouragement. As always, God has placed the right words/people in the right place in time in our lives, for which I shout with Joy! Also, the spirit of discouragement is running rampant all around; we must bind this spirit in the name of Jesus – done – and include ALL others so we can move forward more freely – Done & Done!
I signed up to receive your new devotions…Everyone needs encouraged. My prayer for all – May the God of ALL Mercy and Grace shower down on each and every one of us – putting out the devastating fires in Arizona. May God's Peace and Protection be with all our Deployed and May they ALL return safely! Thank you Again, Renee! You are Appreciated Very Much and we lift You up, too! D. Wenger {Angelweng}
Anonymous says
I really needed your devotional today and the upcoming diet. I am struggling to walk through a trial that feels like it is unbearable at times. I am trying so hard not to doubt and stay focussed and trust God, but it gets tough at times. I am defitnitely going to invite friends to participate in the self-doubt diet. I signed up –Lora C
Michlle says
WOW……………I so needed this. I have fallen away from God, it's been a few months.
I find myself so lost at times and wonder why our God would want to keep picking me back up again, when i don't have the faith and trust in Him that I should. Sometimes i think I hear God talking to me but then I hear so many other things boggling around in my head that I question what God might be telling me or saying "God, I'm waiting. I pray for focus to hear Him when he is talking to me, and to get myself back where I need to be with my Father.
sagreen125 says
I have signed up for the doubt diet
thanks
stacy ([email protected])
Tracy says
This book and devotional diet is going to be just what I need. Thank you so much. Off to invite friends to join me. 🙂
Anonymous says
I am excited about the new book:)
raindiamonds at yahoo
Heidi says
Signed up for your devotional diet this morning. I have some decisions ahead of me and have thought I've "known" what to do and then doubts keep coming back. I would love to read your new book as well!:)
[email protected]
Ayla Starr says
This was really on time for me (as God always is). It seems as though whenever God delivers me from one area of doubt and I feel like I'm completely delivered; a completely new and unexpected area of doubt creeps in.
I am really hard on myself when I fall and to the point of feeling like there isn't any use because I won't ever get it together. God is clearly speaking to me concerning this because the scripture you shared at the beginning of your devotion has popped up more than once for me today. I am thankful that in all of our doubt and insecurities He is constantly freeing us from their bondage.
Thank you again for ministering to me. I have a few sisters in Christ who may be struggling with doubt and insecurity right now that I forwarded this to. I believe wholeheartedly that the devotionals will minister to all of us in this season.
Love and blessings,
Ayla
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Allison says
I am so excited about this! I have signed up for the doubt diet and I sent an email with your information you posted to 14 of my friends and family members.
This is going to be AWESOME! I am ready to get the devotions.
In my prayers
Anonymous says
I loved the devotional in p31 today. I would love to read your book. I have no confidence in myself even though I am trying very hard to obey God. I want to learn how to be confident
Anonymous says
Thank you for allowing us to have 7 days of your daily devotional. I look forward to reading the book as well!
Ev says
Wow! I am so looking forward to the book as well as the doubt diet! So glad I found your site and I have signed up to receive your blog via email – [email protected]. I have so struggled with doubt my ENTIRE life, and I am now at a point of starting something new with God that I do not want to see fail because of my doubts and fears. This could not have come at a better time for me. I have also posted an invitation on FB for my friends to join me. Thank you so much for entering me into the give away.
BTW, will your book be available in a Kindle version? I love my Kindle and being able to receive a book within 60 seconds of ordering it. I also love the convenience of being able to carry MANY books with me all the time. Please consider offering your book for the Kindle. Thank you!! And thank you so much for the post I just sent to my Kindle from Proverbs 31 blog. Again, so timely for my life.
Dee says
I am so eager to read this book. This is definitely something I struggle with..self doubt. I signed up to receive the 7 day "diet" of self doubt and am going to encourage one of my friends to do the same. I pray blessings on you and your ministry!
Kimberly says
I am really excited about this book and will be getting it. My goal is to be confident in my relationship with Christ and with others. I have to admit I am not always confident and I know that God has given us boldness and confidence but sometimes I struggle to be honest. So, to read this book and learn will be wonderful, can not wait.
Anita - Soaring Eagle says
Thank you for your devotion and the "free 7 day…" I have been having so many doubts since I was laid off March 2nd. With you and the other Proverbs 31 women's devotions and of course God's Word has helped me so much to get through this season of my life. Being 56 without a job is rough – but God always gives me hope and new beginnings! He has blessed me so much with your devotions, I do so look forward to YOUR book – I will get it once I get a job that is for sure. God Bless YOU!!!
Tara says
Thank you for that devotion this morning, I needed to hear that! I had a rough day with my kids yesterday and was feeling frustrated and like I just can't get it right. God knew I needed to hear that this morning!
tiggerdaisy says
I'm so excited about your new book and devotional diet! YEAH!!!! I know that this book will speak volumes to many women across age, race and location ranges.
Prayers and blessings as this all unfolds!
Rebecca
MJ says
I am a newly married woman and I am just eating up every devotion, story, and book that you post. I am read A Woman's Secret to a Balanced Life now. But I am one who loses confidence too quickly. I often find that I have faith for others, but I always feel overwhelmed, confused, and lacking confidence when it comes to my prayers being answers. I want that asurety that I am hearing from God and being lead by God. M. Johnson