“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light” 1 Peter 2:9 (NIV)
Christmas was only days away and we still didn’t have a tree. Living on a college-student’s budget with our first baby on the way, we were scraping by and couldn’t bring ourselves to spend $25-50 on something we didn’t need. It seemed kind of trivial when I told God how sad I felt that we couldn’t afford a Christmas tree. Then I felt guilty knowing there were others who needed so much more.
On our way home from a friend’s house the Sunday night before Christmas, my husband, J.J. and I noticed the tree lot near our apartment had marked all their trees down to $10! Grins stretched across our faces as we made plans to buy one Monday night as soon as J.J. got home from his part-time job.
The next evening we walked down each row of the tree lot looking for just the right spruce to fit in the corner of our one-bedroom apartment. Feeling sentimental and slightly maternal, I realized that picking our first Christmas tree was going to be almost as difficult as choosing our child’s name.
I took way too much time. The sun went down quickly, the tree-lot started to close and the spotlights shut down. There we were, standing in the pitch dark without a tree.
My creative and very patient husband pulled his car into the rows of trees and flashed on his high beams. Suddenly, the bright lights dispelled the darkness and standing in front of me was the most precious tree I’d ever seen. Although it had some droopy branches and a gap on one side, I pointed at it and told J.J., “That’s the one I want!”
Later that night, with my hands wrapped around a cup of hot cocoa, I sat on our couch looking at our little tree. I remembered how sad I felt earlier when the darkness made it impossible to see the trees. Yet, when the beams of light illuminated the lot, my heart filled with hope.
Etched in my mind was a picture I wouldn’t forget, a memory that drew me back to another time marked by darkness – a time when I wasn’t choosing, but needed to be chosen.
Just when it felt like all my dreams had died and my hope was gone, the Light of God’s unfailing love punctured the clouds of darkness and depression surrounding my mind. It happened on another cold winter’s eve in January 1989 while I was sitting in the balcony of a church hoping to hear something that would fill the empty places in my heart. Feeling His Spirit tugging on my heart, whispering words I longed to hear, I sensed God saying, “Renee, you are the one I want.”
He’d been trying to tell me for years, but I had allowed the wounds of my past and the words of others to convince me that no one would ever want me.
At some point, I think most of us have felt like the little Christmas tree and me. Scarred by disappointments, we wonder if anyone would ever choose us. With gaps that make us feel like candidates for rejection, we hope no one will notice our inadequacies. And like the fate of my spruce pine, it seems the only way we’ll get chosen is if all the good ones are picked first.
First Peter 2:9 reminds us that through Christ we are chosen! God sent His Son to light our darkness and fill the gaps in our hearts. Sweet friend, I pray that you will hold onto the truth that God sees you today, and He wants you to hear Him declaring with all His heart, “You are the one I want!”
Dear Lord, that spruce pine and I have a lot in common. Even with my gaps and broken branches, You chose me and made me part of Your family through Jesus. Thank You for sending Your Son to bring Light in the dark corners of my life and to bring endless hope to my heart. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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I’ve always felt a little like the unwanted, crooked Christmas tree because of low self-esteem. It really surprised me when I received an email telling me that I was being considered for a job that I had been praying for for 3 weeks. I got the job and this blessing has really strengthened my faith and hope in Jesus and I now feel more able to trust in him completely and leave the consequences to him. This is really helpful when I’m dealing with people and situations that only God can change.
I can’t tell you Renee how much your honest reflections on your own life give me so much perspective and hope for my own! I struggle with so many of the same things you did and try thank God for you. You and your different writing have become a staple in my life. Thank you for all you do and I can’t wait to one day read your book
I love reading your devotions. They always seem to be speaking to me. I am reading your book a “Confident Heart.” You have so many spiritual truths written in the book, I read some and dwell on your thoughts. I pray to my Heavenly Father. Actually your book has helped me to see God as my true Heavenly Father. My earthly father was not the type of parent God would approve of and the example he set in my life and mind has been a difficult one to overcome in seeing God as a Heavenly Father figure. The comparisons were to srastic. I am coming to know God as a Heavenly Father, a companion, a friend, a Lord and Redeemer, but I still struggle with see myself with any value. Due to a devasting event that happened within the past year, this struggle is over whelming. Your book is giving me hope, and thoughts to ponder and pray for.
I still struggle and wish I had a friend like you, with your wisdom and heart to talk with. I feel truly one with you in so many ways. Thank you for your love and true concern that comes forth from your bloggs and pages in your book. I know you do not know me but I pray for your happiness and continued support. You are a lady truly loved by God. You are blessed.
I read these beautiful comments and sayings and they are truly beautiful… Iam writing this as I sit… Watching my beautiful 3 year old sleep…so much sadness has happened to our family lately…I feel weird writing this …. Maybe I should talk to a therapist but I am compelled to talk to other women who have the same conviction I have for our Lord… I used to be upset with God when horrible things happened… And they were not necessarily in my life… But I realized that we are given a gift… To chose how to behave in his name….
My family has recently dealt with a situation that has forced us to do many things we didn’t want to ….move, deal with hefty emotional stress, change our whole way of being… I
We are blessed with good friends and never ending love with family that gets us through…. I want to bless to those in need of a friend and a helping hand… I understand how hard it is to forgive and love in such a world that condemns it….God’s love to you all
Thank you!
Thank you for your passion and heart to share and encourage and bless us all. I am blessed with every devotional.
Hi Renee,
We have never met, nor will we probably ever meet. But, as life and possibly God has challenged me in faith over a two year period, I can’t help but to feel as though you have known me this entire struggle. Better yet, maybe that is His testament of deep love to me of how intricately He can craft your words to be His words and His message to a joyfully and yet utterly broken daughter of His kingdom. It is great to be reminded that I am chosen, you are chosen, each one of us who belongs to such a marvelous King is chosen. Beautiful, isn’t it?
I feel as though A confident Heart was written for me! Though I have never met you! It seems our hearts and are connected great post!
I was brought to my knees in tears as I read this just moments ago. I recently gave my testimony for the very first time in my life at our Ladies Night of Lights at our church. I trembled and gulped as more and more women piled into the event. I begrudgingly accepted the invitation in the first place to share, but brought into a combination so many recent studies, words spoken to me, and Christ’s nudge urging me my story was just as significant to Christ Himself as anyone else’s. I am not sure if His words through me that night made a difference in anyone’s hearts…I can only pray it did…for at least one. But as I read this today, I felt as though the ink of my words had been transferred to this writing…it’s exactly what my heart professed to the room of women. It was soulful enough to write out and speak the words myself; but to hear a heart that has been on the same wave as mine…only God can do that.