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“When God looks at you, He sees someone He loves. In Isaiah 43:4, God says, “You are precious and honored in my sight . . . and I love you.” When God looks at you, He also sees someone He knows. David said in Psalm 139:1, “You have searched me, LORD, and you know me.” You are not just one of millions of others, but are uniquely you. You are God’s prized possession, a valued treasure of great worth.” ~ Chapter 8, A Confident Heart
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Our word for the week: MASTERPIECE
Our verse for the week:
“We are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things He planned for us long ago.” Ephesians 2:10, NLT
Be sure to print it and post this week’s download everywhere! You can download in a PDF or in MSWord.
According to Distionary.com a masterpiece is:
- a person’s greatest piece of work, as in art
- anything done with masterly skill
- a consummate example of skill or excellence of any kind
Let’s Connect: As you begin or continue to read Chapter 8 {depending on your personal pace}, I’d love for us to share thoughts about the first few sections of the chapter. Are there sentences or verses you’ve underlined? Thoughts you’ve highlighted? How are you doing?
Click “Share Your Thoughts” below. Can’t wait to hear and pray over you today. Even though I don’t get to comment all the time, I am reading and praying over your comments. As time allows in my day, I’ll leave a note when I can. 🙂
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HOPE that is the word I need for today !Medical issues and still no answer as to what is going on. Please pray for HOPE that I can get that HOPE from the LORD sometimes He seems so far away and I can’t seem to hear from HIM thank you for the book I’m trying to let go and let the LORD have control but I seem to keep trying to figure out what I should do ! Thanks for prayers
Renee, loved the phrase, “disease to please”. Most of my life has been spent trying to please everyone else, but ME ! Always trying to figure out what everyone wants from me and always comparing me to my more talented, successful, smart sister. This book was sent to me directly from HEAVEN !! I have never been more excited to read a book and watch your videos. I come from a long line of physical abuse, fear, imprisonment as a child, verbal abuse, and suicidal tendencies. It is through God and people like you that have got me through my brokenness. “God can use her brokenness to do something beautiful, because the cracks allow His light to shine through and his living water to pour out !” Thank You…..
I started reading Chapter 8 this morning and I have made notes all over the pages. I really like what your friend Genia said, “Every time I compare myself with someone else, I can never measure up because I am comparing my insides with there outsides.” I guess I do compare myself with others, I just never looked at it like that. I have always said I wish i could do … I wish I could be.. and I have heard my children do this and know that they just started it because they have learned from me. Lord help me to do better in this area.
I have really been struggling with what God wants me to do. He has let me know that he wants me to be a spoke person for him. I was telling a friend the other day that I felt the Lord leading me to do this but I am not a speaker. I love to be among people and hear them testifying but I go to testify and can not seem to get the words out I want to say, so I just don’t see myself speaking to ladies. She made a statement that day that has really stuck in my head, she said”you sound like Moses”. I just let it pass but when I got home it kept coming to my mind, I guess I am like Moses, I don’t want to be the center of attention. I ask that you ladies pray for me that I will listen to God and will take him at his word and do what he wants me to do. I have been a Christian for 30 years but this past year I have really gotten so close to the Lord. He has really been all I think of and I study the word more than I have ever before.
Thank you so much for this study it has come into my life at just the perfect time.
Renee – you had to have written this book for me!! I am 43 and still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up! I also compare my life to others and wonder why I can’t seem to be as “together” as this woman or that woman! “Comparison leaves us insecure, confused, and discontent.” So true! I love when Genia said “Every time I compare myself with someone else, I can never measure up because I am comparing my insides with their outsides.” That sentence spoke to me. When I compare myself to other women I deny who I am and what I have to offer! Just because I don’t dress like a Barbie doll everyday or weigh the “perfect” weight does not mean that I am not beautiful! Or if I don’t drive the right car or live in the right neighborhood or live in the biggest house doesn’t mean that I am not just as important!
Thank-you!! 🙂
WOW! I just read the first 2 pages of Chapter 8 this morning and already I can’t believe it how much similarity there is with my life. I know exactly how you felt, Renee, during your “team-building activity”. I’ve been there! I too try to be who others wanted, needed and expected me to be. I am a constant candidate for the burnout and never feel like I will ever be able to measure up to other women. It seems like when I enjoy doing something or learning about something and picture my self doing it, I get excited, but few minutes later I have to dismiss the whole idea because I know that I will never be able to be good enough at it, have enough skills to pursue my goal and I am afraid to fail. And it is so true that I do compare how I feel on the inside with other people who look like they have it all together on the outside. I really don’t know what is going on with them on the inside. We are all so good at covering up our true feelings and insecurities and wearing masks. It gives us false impressions.
Wonderful book….I have it on Kindle…I want a print copy though so I can make more notes/markings!!
Please pray for me/hub’s health issues, which are quite serious now. Also, pray for daughter, single Mom, in her job, health, finances, housing, and her son getting ready for college.
Thanks for your great ministry.
Tammy I have felt the same way but I continue to hold on to God reminding Him this is not the way my life was meant to be. My best days are ahead of me. As long as you have breath…its never too late for you because everything you need is on the inside of you. I pray the same Spirit that rose Jesus from the dead rises up inside of you and gives you new life. All things are possible to those who believe and all we need is faith of a mustard seed.
As a never married woman well into her late 30’s (the only one among every single group of friends I have had since grade school on) it is hard to not give up hope. Acheiveing a dream such as marriage also depends on another person being part of the plan. I struggle with attending church as clearly even the Christian churches rarely recognize that there are never married singles that are beyond college age and “young professional” age. Families and chidlren are continually recognized and sermoned too but it is hard at times to not compare oneself to other women my age when God said “it is not good for man to be alone”.
Jess – Don’t give up hope! If it is God’s plan for you than you will meet the right man! I was 36 when I married my husband! I had almost given up! It was when I decided and learned to be a happy and productive Christian single that I met my husband! I will be praying for peace in singlehood for you!
Jess, I so know what you mean. I am 42 and still single as well with not very much experience in dating. Some days I just feel like I dont’ fit in anywhere. Most of my family and friends are married with children and I don’t like to go places by myself so I mostly stay home and keep to myself.
Jess, don’t give up. I understand how you feel although I am a divorced woman, I too want to be married and share my life with someone. I have been single for about 16 years now and I am 50 now. It’s Ok to go and do things for yourself. It might seem awkward because you see other people with someone but you have to learn how to be with yourself before you can be with someone. Take this time to really learn who you are. When you’re comfortable with yourself you will have so much more to give when that special person comes along. Enjoy your singleness now with the Lord and he will show you so much about yourself, your likes and dislikes and most of all how to love yourself just as you are. I am apprehensive of going to the church I attend because the majority of my brothers and sisters are married and it makes me feel awkward sometimes but when I begin to worship the Lord i forget about that and enjoy my time fellowshiping with all of them. It was tough for me for a long time feeling like a failure because my marriage didn’t work but in the midst of losing that relationship God was waiting for me right where I was broken and all ready to share his love and fill me with his joy.
Renee,
I want to thank you for writing this book. I had asked for it for Christmas and started to read it soon after. I wasn’t far into reading it when I received the e-mail saying that you were doing an online study on it. I was excited to join but also hesitant because I have never done an online study before.
God has been doing some amazing things in my life over the last 2 years but especially since January have I been growing in leaps & bounds. This book and study have fit so perfectly into it. I have doubted myself and my abilities so much in the past. I, in fact, have hated myself especially what I have looked like. I have played the comparison game too. This has been changing and I have never been so confident in myself. The confidence though has come out of my realization of whose I am and how much God values me.
This morning I read: “Doubts filtered my idea through reality: Who am I to think I could write something women would want to read?” I had a similar incident this past week. As I was reading the book, a thought came to me that maybe I should lead this study for the women at my church. Doubts have assailed me making me think “who am I that I would think of leading the women in my church through this study?” There are so many women of high calibur at my church. I mentioned this to a friend yesterday and she stopped me mid sentence to say “but you are one of them”. I stopped to think about that and agreed. I don’t think I would have before this study. One thing I love is sharing what God is doing in my life. I’m not sure if I will end up leading this study but maybe one day I will lead a study.
God bless! 🙂
Edith, you can! Your thoughts reflect mine exactly; however, I led a couple studies years ago…..before I went back to teaching. Taught for 8 more years and am retired now. I’ve wondered about doing the same thing, but feel a little out of practice. Then I let thoughts like “Why would other women want to do this study? They look confident to me. I’m just weak.” I know those are “against me” thoughts and I am replacing them with the truth of God’s promises. Just remember what Renee said about being faithful with what God has given you. He will take it and bless it if you are faithful to whatever he has called you to. Blessings to you.
I think what has struck me is that in spite of all my losses and brokenness, ( maybe even because of them) the Lord still has a purpose for me. A purpose I cannot see or am yet to understand. In doing the “Getting to Know yourself ” part of the chapter caused me to choke up a bit. Things have come into my life (debilitating illness) and I have been left totally changed from them. My personality has changed and through this total brokenness and transforming work God is doing that he still chooses to have a plan for me and a purpose. I truly struggle with that..I have nothing left of myself. He must provide it because I have been stripped down and laid to waste. This disease continues to rob me of my independence and ability to do normal things with my kids. They have lived with a mom thats not like any of their friends moms I can’t do physically what others do….and yet He has a plan for me, for redemption , restoration, and completeness. Getting to know myself now after the last years of this disease hits me with a fresh burst of grief because it has truly changed who I am..and to think of having dreams and hope is still far off when today I want to just be a normal mom, who can hold her kids, prepare dinner for her family, and play with her kids. I guess my dreams are for the normal things everyone else gets tired of doing.
(((Great big HUGS))) W!
God has no waste baskets. He has a purpose for you. He has a purpose to use you for His glory and His Kingdom *despite* this disease… and maybe even, *because* of this disease. Don’t let sorrow over “failing” your kids rendor worthless the amazing lessons you ARE teaching them in just being you. They are learning a deeper sense of compassion, understanding, and love than many children may ever get. Just watch and see, I would not be a bit surprised if one of your children (at least) chooses a profession in healthcare or medical services. God uses us despite us, which usually means, He uses us sometimes when we are most unaware. Just you being you, in your good moments and bad moments, might be planting the seeds of future inspiration and love into your children that could go on to completely change someone else’s life entirely. God is big and God is God. His plan for your children is complete and whole, just as His plan for YOU is complete and whole. God will not allow things of this life take away from Him, who He is, or His desire and plan for the nations. There is a passage in Joel 2:25-27 that I love. It says,
“I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten—
the great locust and the young locust,
the other locusts and the locust swarm…”
He is aware of your struggles, of your grief and the constant “losses” you are always grieving new and old (great locusts and young locusts), and He isn’t done.
As I reading through your message the words “Broken and transforming work” and “stripped down and laid to waste” jumped out at me… “stripped down and laid to waste” brought so many of the old testament scripture where God promises to rebuild that which has been demolished and lost. A caterpillar literally is broken down to “goo” while in the chrysalis. It goes through a period where it is no longer caterpillar, yet also not butterfly. It’s in an inbetween stage of waiting and trusting Creator’s process. It can do nothing on it’s own in that state. But that isn’t the end of it. Creator has so much more in store for it with no intentions of ever leaving it there. It must be completely broken down before it can be completely transformed! But after the process is complete there is nothing left of the “old life”, and it is blessed in ways of life that it never had a hope to know before! Hold onto Him. He has plans for you that are so much bigger and better than this, and most likely they will come to pass *because* of this. You walk a journey that is hard and so very different from the vast majority of “us” out there, yet often times God uses us right where we are. Perhaps His plan is to use you to encourage and come alongside others who struggle with this disease. Perhaps the special ministry He has for you isn’t going to be reaching far and wide and broad like we tend to think of as “women’s ministry”, but only you have the potential to speak at a depth with people of unique suffering, a depth that I am sure would be appreciated on a far more intimate, life changing level, than someone else who is “able bodied” and always has been. Hang in there. I am praying for you. Because He has goodness for you. He has specific love from within Himself to bring into you, and through you. Your kids are His kids and He has good things in store for them, in the very areas you grieve He is already filling to full! Trust the process. When you can only see dirt, trust there is life within that soil ready to break ground at the perfect timing of His call forth. He isn’t done with you yet, and I am praying for peace and reassurance of who you are TO Him, and who you are WITHIN Him!
Kristy,
Thanks you for taking time to write such encouragement . This has been a very lonely process without much understanding because I “look fine.” God has revealed himself to me in a way I wouldn’t trade for the world. I’ve really struggled with my thoughts…. thinking I must have really done something wrong for this to happen to me, I must deserve it. I’ve had family walk out of my life, christian family because they thought I was making this up and was to needy. I know that is not how God looks at me, but it is a daily renewal of my mind that must take place. A true leaving behind and moving forward. God has given me a word and it is to stop looking back and look forward he is doing a new thing. I covet your prayers.
The section on comparison is really helpful to me. I find myself comparing what I do to others often, but had never thought that I am comparing my insides with their outsides. This is powerful for me to remember and put those comparison thoughts into perspective.
It helped me put it all in perspective when Genia said that. It’s so true isn’t it??!!
Absolutely! It’s important for me to remember that no matter how someone appears on the outside, I don’t know what is on the inside and what struggles they have.
The message in this chapter went off like a megaphone in my head. I do spend a lot of time taking care of others, which I do enjoy doing. But this chapter made me realize that it’s ok for me to search for my self-worth in other areas. God is calling me to do special things for Him and I need to make time to find out what those things are. Thank you for bringing this to my attention Renee.
Amen!! I love how He’s speaking to you!
Could someone list the phlegmatic qualities. I am reading this on a notebook and it cut off most of the text. Thanks so much.
Phlegmatic Desires PEACE
Needs times of quiet, reduced stress, feeling of worth, respect
Strengths Relational Challenges
Calm Stubborn
Adds balance Uninvolved
Witty Procrastinates
Low-key Unenthusiastic
Considerate Hard to motivate
Reliable Denial
Makes Peace Careless
God bless you richly!
Sorry; it didn’t keep the separation I had. Hope you can figure it out. 🙁
Thank you. Its great.
Renee, I would first like to thank you again for this study. On this journey, I am feeling renewed and healing some wounds.
Chapter 8 was another ouchy! Throughout my life, and even today, I still wonder what do I have to offer and what is my spiritual gift? I sometimes feel God skipped me when handing out talents! I am a competent person, just not a creative one. I mean, tell what you want and how you want it and you got it! Forget about singing! Only I like hearing my loud and off key voice! I love public speaking… Only if I have a script to guide me. Never really been good at writing. My thoughts seem to hide when it’s time to put them on paper.
This led me into the comparison trap. If only I could paint like… If only I could sing like.. If only I can write like…. If… If… If…! But, God made no two people alike. We all have our own talents and gifts. I am learning once I try to stop trying to get someone else’s talent, I may find my own. I am praying that through your words and my desires I find my calling so I can perform it to uplift the kingdom.
And, I guess having the melancholy personality trait doesn’t help. If I try something new and it doesn’t quite live up to my expectations, I fold and become depressed. I’ll tell myself negative things like I knew this wouldn’t work… I knew I couldn’t do it…. I’m hopeless… A lot of this comes from my mean sprited Aunt who always told me I would never be anything. Suddenly, that teenage girl with low self esteem emerges. These are the times I need to Isaiah 43:4 and make myself available to His direction..
Thank you so much for being transparent and open with your thoughts and struggles. I have a feeling many in our group can relate. It’s so easy to think… if only I could…. then God could use me. But it’s such a lie. And it’s exactly what the enemy wants you to believe so you won’t’ let God use you just as you are. Does that make sense?
Why not let Him use you just as you are – right where you are – with the personality and strengths He’s given you. 🙂 And it’s time to silence the critical aunt and listen to the voice of your shepherd telling you what HE wants you to do today to offer that one thing only you can offer. ANd then hear Him whisper – well done good and faithful servant. 🙂
I am going to be sharing more on this topic on our Thursday night Conference Call. Hope you can be there or listen to it later. {It will be recorded} 🙂
Thanks, Renee! And, I will be listening on Thursday! 🙂
I really loved the new look at the story in the Bible about the master and his three servants. He gave the different amounts of talents according to their abilities. The servant who only got one talent just hid it man the ground. I can relate to this so well! Sometimes, I’m ashamed of what I have, and I’m running away from who I am. As a child of first generation immigrants, I’ve always felt like a second class citizen when growing up. I always wanted to hide the fact that I was so different from my classmates. as an adult, God has been showing me that my heritage and my ability to fluently speak my home language are terrific assets that can be used to advance His kingdom. He has been bringing me to international students who needs to be poured into. For the first time, I’m learning to discuss the Bible in my home language! I don’t mow where God wants to take things, but it’s becoming clear to me that there is a lot of “fertile soil” and He wants me to sow generously. Some days, I still get a little jealous of other people’s talents, but the Spirit now reminds me that I have some wonderful talents too and I shouldn’t waste them.
I love what you shared Julie and how far you have come in your journey of struggling with that insecurity {which is something we all feel but it shows up in different ways} and then how you are coming to see your value, what you have to offer that is unique and how God can use it. Keep letting Him use you and lead you sweet friend. You are a beautiful offering to Him and others – and esp us here in the study!!
Thanks Renee! It is a wonderful blessing to be doing this study with you and the other ladies. May God bless you tremendously for your obedience and using the talents He has given you!
Right from the beginning of Chapter 8 I wanted to start posting about what is written. So many times I feel like I don’t know who I am, I feel like I have no dreams for the future or “what I want to be when I grow up.’ I always wanted to be a wife and mom, that has been a constant in my life, and God has blessed me with a wonderful family. I have compared myself with others who have this drive to go to school, to seek out a professional career and I have felt like I am wasting my life because I don’t have that drive, I don’t have a passion for a career. I have really struggled with this and a few months ago I was praying and asking God to show me what I should go to school for and why I don’t have a passion for a specific degree and He told me that is not His plan for me. I know God has a plan for me and I just need to be faithful to obey when He speaks. Thank you again for this book and study, Renee. I am anxious to continue reading Chapter 8!
Oh sweet Jamie!! An education and a career are not the end all be all. Don’t feel like you need to want those things because others do. Or that you are less because you don’t. I couldn’t wait to get out of school and I am so glad that I didn’t have to go back and do more to find God’s purpose. I think sometimes we forget that God’s purpose isn’t found in a job or position. It’s found in our passion {we will talk about this too in chapter 8.} It’s found when respond to His promptings to love on, give to, believe in, bless and serve those who are right where we are – in our workplaces, community, church, family.
The world tells us we need to be more and do more and have more – but that is a lie form the pit. It will lead to nothing but constant striving and no contentment b/c no matter how much we do or have – it’s never enough.
We’ll talk about this more this week but for now, focus on the first few sections of this chapter and journal your thoughts, feelings and answer the first 2 questions in the back of the chapter. This is one of my favorite parts of the book and Im praying it will be a big encouragement to each of you!
I love this book. I have it on my Kindle but I bought a physical copy (and one for a friend:) because I want to read it over and over and rifle through it, which is hard to do on a Kindle. I wondered if anyone has a similar situation to mine. It may be off topic (i have read the whole book and my husband is asleep so i can’t sneak up to check what Chapter 8 is about:) I have a 16 yr old daughter who is my life. Her dad died when she was 14 months old and we have a very close relationship. I remarried 8 years ago to a wonderful man who is great with her. She is still jealous of him and whenever he goes out of town and then returns, there is a “re-entry” adjustment because she had had me all to herself. If i spend time with him, she is jealous, if i spend time with her, i feel like a bad wife. I just want to run away. I have googled different blogs, etc. but i thought you all are a better group to ask. I love them both so dearly and i feel like i disappoint them both.
Keep praying for your family, don’t give up. It can be hard for a child to accept a step parent. Sometimes it may help to spend time as a family, but also build in times where you spend time just with your daughter, or just with your husband. Also allow them to spend time alone together. But even if you’re spending time alone with her, you can still mention your husband. This can help your daughter see you and your husband as a couple and that once she is gone to college, your lives will continue. Give your feelings of guilt to God, and see if He leads you to talk about them as a family. You’re not a bad mother or wife, and the two people who care about you the most wouldn’t want you to think that! God bless!
Great advice Julie!!
Thank you, Julie ~ bless you:)
I love you, Renee ~ you are awesome:)
Trust in the Lord’s timing. I too am 25 years into my marriage and just coming to understand that God has a plan that is perfect for me. He has a plan for you. Do not throw away your confidence. You will miss out on His plan to complete His work in you.
Thank you, Julie ~ you all are who got me out of bed this morning………….
Maureen – I know just how you feel! My son is 11 and I married my husband when Stephen was 4. I feel just like you at times! Stephen gets so jealous if I spend time alone with my husband so that makes me feel like a bad mom! And if I spend time alone with Stephen I then feel like a bad wife. I feel caught in the middle between these two!
I will pray for your family! Would you also pray for mine?
Christina ~ thank you so much for your response. I will definitely pray for you and yours. How do you deal?
Maureen – I don’t deal with it very well! I just try to plan “family” time a lot! It’s a little better since Stephen has started to get his own interests. Danny is great with Stephen and never gets upset with the time I spend with him but Stephen will say that I love Danny more if I spend alone time with him!
I love your book. About 18 months ago God started me on a very similar journey of discovering how I am uniquely made by Him for a specific purpose. I have spent most of my life feeling like Im a square peg being pushed into a round hole. I continue my quest to discover who I am… not who I think I need to be or who others think I need to be but exactly who God says I am and how He made me. I joke with my friends and say I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up but He keeps leading me on my path of discovery and Im looking forward to this chapter as He already reminded me this morning what He has already revealed to me about my unique design and I know there is so much more to discover 🙂 I have found it so soul invigorating to take the time to dream and discover what makes me come alive… what I enjoy… what Im passionate about etc. Thankyou for the reminder today that its okay to embrace that I may be a square peg. That I don’t have to keep pushing myself into round holes… that I can embrace who God made me.
Amen, Amen, Amen Carla!! You are on the path to discovering who God created you to be. Guard your heart and delight in HIM with all you have and He will lead you to the plans and purpose He has for you – right where you are in the big and little things that are part of your every day life. Cheering you on!
I read the first three or four pages of chapter 8 this morning and feel like it’s too late for me. If I’d known this 25 years ago, it could have a made a difference. Now, it’s like, yeah, I know, but it’s too late to do anything about it now….
It is never too late, Tammy! God has a purpose for you! Don’t let the enemy make you feel defeated! That is what this study is all about.
Remember, Philippians 1:6 I am confident God will complete the good work He started in me.
Tammy,
It’s never too late with the Lord! Sometimes, I think I believed this lie of Satan about this as well. God doesn’t say “it is too late”. He says, “He loves you!…and has great things ahead.”
Praying that none of us believe Satan’s lies! That is the way he keeps us from moving forward in the strength and power of the Lord!
Lynne!
Oh Jamie! Thank you so much for posting Philippians 1:6 in response to that comment! This morning while reading that chapter, the enemy was having a hay day with my heart telling me the same thing; “it’s too late…you’ve wasted what little talent you had…. “and I wrote on an index card, “Please show my Gideon heart where my talents are, and with your help…I will give it a try” and guess what scripture was on it? Philippians 1:6!!!! I have always loved to sing and write; since I was a little girl I have loved those things. If ever I get a free minute (not very often with 3 kids lol) I sing my heart out! I have been told that I have a good singing voice, but I am so incredibly insecure in front of people that I run away from anything that involves me using it…unless it’s in the car, shower, or any other room in my house…ha. I just recently got asked to write articles for this online blog ministry and accepted the invitation but have been a hot mess every day questioning whether or not it’s good enough. I know better, but old habits and lies believed just like to hang on, don’t they? Anyway, this was my favorite chapter so far and I am feeling extremely encouraged by both the book and your response to Tammy!
I’d also like to say on a side note, that my house is beginning to look a little “beautiful mind’ish” with all of these scriptures everywhere! lol
Laura, your welcome 🙂 Sing with your kids, I always do and I have never been told I can sing, I just enjoy it and enjoy listening when my 6 year old is singing praise and worship songs around the house. I am 37 and feel that I am really just now starting to let God take the lead in my life. I figure this, my insecure thoughts and the enemy has kept me from being the woman God wants me to be thus far, why waste another day?
Hi, Tammy! Have you received Christ as your Lord and Savior? It is never too late with God. He is timeless. He loves you greatly and deeply! He desires the very best for you and would never give up on you. Please don’t give up on yourself. Remember, God gave His one and only Son for you and me. Jesus was beaten and died in our place, and that is not in vain. He lives to ever-intercede for each and every one of us. Don’t listen to the lies of your flesh, the enemy and the world. It’s not easy, but with God nothing is impossible. We probably all battle the “It’s too late; I’m too far gone, ” thoughts, but they are lies from the pit of hell. Fix your eyes, heart and mind on Jesus and the wonderful, everlasting love He has for you. Let His love for you define you; His intimate knowledge of you bless and keep you, and guard your heart. Let His mercy and grace shower over you and strengthen you. (I am also speaking to myself, as I am a bit down and questioning 🙂 . Remember 1 Peter 5:8-9 “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. 9 RESIST him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world.” (NKJV) God is so very good! Let Him love on you, spend time in His Word, reveling in His promises for you. It won’t always be easy, but He will always be with us. God bless you richly!
Cindy, thank you for sharing your heart. Your words really spoke to me. Your heart’s passion for others really came through and I needed to hear these words today. I’ve been a Christian for a long time, but for the first time as I read Renee’s book, I am finally starting to grasp what it really means to have a personal relationship with Jesus. I am 54 years old and I can’t remember a day that I haven’t struggled with why am I here. I am tired of living a defeated life. Just going through the motions day by day. Thank you for the Bible verses you shared. I needed to be reminded that God loves me even if I don’t love myself, or if others don’t except me for who I am. I am in a job that I don’t feel qualified for, but for financial reasons, I think I have to stay. After reading the chapter “Discovering the God-Given Desires of Your Heart”, I am hopeful that there is still time for me to find my calling. I’m also thankful for this forum where other’s struggle with the same issues. I thought I was all alone.
Have a blessed day!
Thank you for your encouragement, Sharon. What you have shared here really blesses me. Praise God for you! Let’s keep our eyes, hearts, and minds fixed on Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith!
Thank you so much for sharing such powerful encouragement Cindy!! I know many will be blessed by your words!
Thank you, Renee! Your words of encouragement have blessed me. God bless you richly!
Just reading some of the comments this afternoon. I really needed to hear what you have stated, Cindy.
I know I have disappointed The Lord and am having a hard time dealing with it. I can see I have believed Satan’s lies and need to focus on Jesus and His love for me.
Tammy I have felt the same way but I continue to hold on to God reminding Him this is not the way my life was meant to be. My best days are ahead of me. As long as you have breath…its never too late for you because everything you need is on the inside of you. I pray the same Spirit that rose Jesus from the dead rises up inside of you and gives you new life. All things are possible to those who believe and all we need is faith of a mustard seed.
Tammy, as others have shared, it’s not too late. Jesus wants this to be the first day of the rest of your life. The day you say “no more, I will not live any more in this place of defeat and comparison. I will take hold of all that Jesus has for me and I will let my life become an offering to Him as I realize the worth, purpose, gifts and calling He has on my life.” Im praying for you today with all my sisters in Christ here who believe in you and the plans God has for you!
Tammy, It is never to late…God has a plan for you, .God loves you, he made you. I pray that God will wrap His loving arms around you and help you thru this struggle. There are so many things in Renees book that have totally just touched me and helped me. Since I read 1Peter5:6-9 Humble yourselves under the might hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. Be sober, be vigilant, because your adversary the devil prowls about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by brotherhood in the world.” I have run into the scripture in so much of my readings…..Satan is a liar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are beautifully made….A Masterpiece, God knitted you together in your mother’s womb… Our minds are the greatest battlefied we encounter…Rebuke satan, and turn your thoughts to God……Jesus died on the cross for our sins, so that we could live. He conquered death and the world, satan….Victory came at the cross. In chapter 5 page 93 Turning is crucial for us as we learn to live beyound the shadows of our doubts…Turning toward God, so we can listen to what He says about who we are and what we can do….Turn towards His truth and His Light, Tammy….Psalm 139:14 says I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made Marvelous are Your works… I go back and read the scriptures on pages 107 and 108. Gods’ promises Renee has in Chapter 12…. Tammy we all fall short of the glory of God daily….Get up dust yourself off and ask God to help you through… Remember John 1:12..I am God’s child!!!!!!!!! Surrender yourself all daily.(I do this in prayer every day and it has so helped me) .. I know God hears you….our greatest gift is Prayer……….God is always there listening all we have to do is get on our knee and seek him…sending you hugs and many prayers sister…
Amen, amen, amen!! So thankful to have all of you in this group together. You bless me!!
Thank you so much, ladies, for taking the time to post words of encouragement for me. I read several of your posts numerous times because it takes that for the words to sink in. I have been a Christian since I was 9 years old and sang solos in church and led worship for years. I love the Lord with all my heart. But I have a hard time believing He loves me.
I am struggling with past career choices that have led me to where I really don’t want to be today. I put it all on the line a few years back and went back to school to do what I thought God had placed on my heart. Now several thousand dollars and two years later I have nothing to show for it but a piece of paper and broken dreams. Now the only choice I have is to work at whatever job I can find and help put my two teenage sons through college in the next ten years or so. There is no money left for me to do anything else. It really seems that God has forgotten about me and since I was so sure that I heard his voice in this, I am left feeling confused and disillusioned.
Thank you for your prayers as this something I struggle with daily. I am trying hard to believe and am so enjoying Renee’s words of encouragement and truth in the book. But it is just SO hard to believe the good stuff.
I am one who has always compared myself with others!
My entire post did not post??? So here it is……I love what your friend Genia said about when I compare myself to others, I am comparing my inside with their outside. That makes so much sense to me now! I shared this with a friend of mine this past week and it helped her also!
My marriage is in shambles but this book is helping me so much. It hurts to face these things sometimes but I know God will heal, I may not know how or when but I know He does know and I rest in that!
Thank you, thank you thank you for this study! Praying that God will continue to bless you and your ministry!
Rebecca, praying for healing in your marriage!
Im praying for you and your marriage Rebecca.
Jesus, only You know just what Rebecca and her husband need. WIll you step into their brokenness and bring healing, hope, clarity, oneness and your unfailing love. Surround them with wise counsel and those who might offer insight to know how to take what the enemy intends for destruction and use it for reconstruction in their marriage. You are their Healer and the Restorer of all that they have. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Jamie and Renee, thanks for your prayers. I so appreciate them!
Rebecca,
My husband and I have gone through a hard season as well for almost 3 years now. We actually seperated for 11 months in 2011 but I moved back home at the end of 2011. We are still definatly struggling but God is good and faithful and I am praying for complete restoration for your marriage. God Bless!!