Don’t Shrink Back: a {FREE} Confident Heart Devotional Online Study + .99 eBook Sale

We do not belong to those who shrink back and are destroyed,
but to those who have faith and are saved. 
Hebrews 10:39

“Things will never change.”
“My life isn’t going to get better.”
“I’ll never have the confidence I need.”

Those are some pretty depressing thoughts, aren’t they? But oh how easily they sneak into our minds and we go along with them without even realizing it. There have been times in my life when I felt paralyzed by thoughts like these.

Times when deep discouragement laced my emotions with uncertainty. 
Times when I let Satan convince me that my feelings of defeat and discouragement are normal.
Times when I shrink back from changes and challenges, as well as opportunities and open doors.

There have also been times when I’ve pulled back in my relationships—with family, friends, and even God. Shrinking back into a place of unbelief . . . settling for less than God’s best. All because I was tired of muddling through apprehension and indecision.

Has doubt ever convinced you that feeling inadequate and discouraged is normal? Or that living in a place of confident assurance isn’t possible for someone like you? I think we often forget we have an adversary who uses self-doubt against us—an opponent who shouts from the sidelines:

“You might as well quit.” “Go ahead and give up.” “You don’t have what it takes.”

We don’t have to go along with him. Today YOU and I can take a stand and stop listening to the lies. God wants us to know and believe that with Christ all things are possible—even you having a confident heart that lives with lasting assurance in Him.

Otherwise doubt, and your enemy, will win every time and your heart will be eroded by attitudes and emotions of defeat. But it’s not supposed to be this way. All throughout Scripture, God tells us things can change; life can be better. He declares with confidence:

See, I am doing a new thing! (Isa. 43:19)
All things are possible to [her] who believes. (Mark 9:23)
I am working all things together for good for those who love
me and are called according to my purpose. (Rom. 8:28)

What if we stopped listening to our hearts when our feelings aren’t telling us the truth – and instead we chose to believe God’s words more than our fears and doubts? It’s possible. I only know because I got so sick of shrinking back and decided to do something about it. Let’s map out our thoughts and walk in the power of God’s Word together— and learn how to live in the TRTH—no matter what our feelings tell us.

With God’s help it’s possible to have lasting Christ-confidence by choosing to believe Him. Choose to remember today’s truth, in this moment and the next, because you are not a woman who shrinks back and is destroyed—but a woman who believes and is saved! {Hebrews 10:39}

Today’s post is from Day 11 from my Confident Heart Devotional book? If it resonated with your heart, I want to invite you to join me on a 60-day online journey through the book! 

With the eBook on sale for ONLY .99  cents through Amazon Kindle, and January just around the corner, this is the perfect start for a new year!!

SIGN UP HERE if you’re interested in an online study  that will be starting the second week of  January, and I’ll send you more details.

Lord, give me a confident heart in Christ. I want You to lead me beyond believing in You to truly believing You. Help me rely on the power of Your promises and live like they are true. In Jesus’ name, Amen. 


Let’s Do This {TOGETHER}!

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Confident, strong, and free.

For most of my life I had a secret longing to be confident in who God made me and free from self-doubt, fear, and insecurity, but I didn’t think it was possible. I was convinced my struggles were part of my DNA, and that other women didn’t battle self-doubt like I did. Thankfully, I got sick and tired of it and set out on a journey to believe and live in the security of God’s promises – no matter what my emotions, hormones or circumstances told me.

And I discovered I was wrong all those years. I wasn’t doomed to a life of self-doubt. Through the power of God’s life-changing perspective and promises I found a way to overcome insecurity, gain strength in our weakness and live free from fears! And I want that for you!

But don’t just listen to me, read these words and see what is possible:

Trust has always been a difficult principle for me. I have a hard time trusting everyone, including God. I’m so happy the Lord led me to purchase this devotional. It is EXCELLENT!!! I love how her thoughts are short and sweet–no meandering around the point with religious speak. She shows us real-life situations where God’s grace can explode, if we let it. I, personally, am going through a very difficult season. The Lord has used this book to challenge the perspectives I have held onto my entire life, and, wouldn’t you know, I’m beginning to learn what He wants to teach me during these trials I’m currently facing–I’m learning how to trust Him. This devotional has also inspired a hunger in my heart like never before; I’m positively gobbling the Word right now. I love feeling so connected with my Savior!! And I loved this book so much that I just ordered two more–one for each of my sisters-in-law. ~ Amazon Reader Review

Are you guilty of negative thoughts towards yourself? I call this “stinkin’ thinkin'” and I am guilty for sure! As I have gotten older and grown in my walk with the Lord, I have learned how VITAL it is to apply Gods Word when I am thinking negatively towards myself! This devotional is phenomenal in teaching you just that… at the end of each devotion, there is a “When I say this…. God says … ” and let me tell you, these are AWESOME!! The devotions are great as well! Renee has an amazing way to write and make you feel like you were having coffee right there with her. She is open, honest, and spoke right to my heart in these devotions. ~ Amazon Reader Review

This book met me at the point of my need as a woman, friend, wife and mother. I couldn’t wait to read it each morning, as I knew there would be a nugget of truth to cling to in my humanity. I recommend this book to every woman in any stage of life. I’m sorry it ended. I think Renee needs to write a yearly devotional. ~ Amazon Reader Review

So, why am I sharing all of this?
Because I don’t want you settling for less than God’s best. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re not good enough, smart enough, or __________ enough (you fill in the blank), I want to show you how to stop doubting yourself and take hold of lasting GOD-fidence!  

Join me for a FREE Online mini-study using my 60-day Confident Heart Devotional as our guide! SIGN UP HERE

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Each devotion includes a personal story you will be able relate to, powerful biblical teaching you can dig into, and real-life application wrapped around a promise and a prayer that will empower you to:

· live confidently in your God-given roles, relationships, and responsibilities
· break free from people-pleasing and performance-based living
· trust the certainty of God’s truth over your circumstances and emotions


Got questions? Just leave them in the comments below and I’ll be happy to answer them. 

Are the Stress and Struggles of the Holidays Weighing You Down?

Hey friend! Today I was on the Cultivate webinar with my friend Lara, and we talked about the stress and strain of the holidays, all that comes with Christmas, travel and family in town. She asked me about how it can trigger our self-doubts and the weight of it all. 

I thought about you and wondered if maybe you’re feeling weighed down by self-doubt or discouragement in a season that often magnifies inadequacies and insecurities we have felt all year long.

If so, you don’t have carry the weight of uncertainty and discouragement alone. Join me (along with 70,000 others) who have gone on The 7-day Doubt Diet. I’d love to encourage your heart, help you lose the weight of self-doubt and show you how you can gain the freedom of a confident heart. 

sign-up-hereFilled with daily insights you’ll love, powerful promises and scripture-based prayers you’ll want to share, you can sign up to receive my FREE Confident Heart email devotions today.

Here’s what others are saying:
Wow, what a wake up call! I have lived for months, maybe years filled with doubt. I realize now it had consumed me and was contemplating taking my own life..that is until I heard you on the radio then looked you up and now on day 2 of the 7 day challenge..You have made a difference and changed a life. Thank you! Juli

“As I was reading day 1, I felt like you were writing about me. I, too, have found myself many times not doing things that would have brought me joy because of feelings of not being good enough. I am so looking forward to these 7 days!”

“Did you write these devotions especially for me?! Again, today’s was perfect for my life and thoughts. You are either a mind reader or His messenger of words on a topic no one else has dared to speak on before. (I know it’s the second). I love the details with the topic/Bible verses.”

“Renee, it’s as if you are speaking straight to my own life! Thank you for sharing your story and offering encouragement for others, like me!” 


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So I was thinking…

Does your heart sometimes feel torn between longing for a life filled with hope, healthy relationships, meaning and more, while barely doing the best you can with the unpredictable, ordinary and sometimes overwhelming reality of every day?

If so, I was thinking how much I would love to have you JOIN ME tomorrow, Thursday Dec 15th at 11am EST (or listen later) for a free webinar I’m doing. I”ll be having a very real-life, in the trenches, unscripted conversation about the good, the hard, the ups and downs, and challenges of living in our God-given passions, stories, gifts, longings and limits with my friend Lara Casey in her FREE Cultivate Webinar !

We’re going to share our stories of learning to let go of perfection, give ourselves more grace, celebrate little by little progress, and give our very best to less so we can cultivate what matters most!

Whether you can JOIN US LIVE or LISTEN LATER, be sure to register here!
I’d love to encourage you right where you are with hope and real life help that’s gotten me out of the sink hole of never enough. Really hope you can join us!

What I Need Most This Christmas {+ a Christmas prayer}


Sometimes it’s easy to forget. All wrapped up in Christmas-giving, I forget to unwrap the gift of Immanuel, God with me. In all the rush I forget how much I need God’s soul-calming hush.

But I want to remember: God’s presence is the {present} I need most. 

This Christmas, I want to unwrap not only the gift Jesus gives but the gift He is.Tweet: I want to unwrap not only the gift Jesus gives but the gift He is. @ReneeSwope

So I’m learning to quiet my thoughts and whisper a prayer, asking Jesus to create a quiet space, a dwelling place for His presence in the manger of my heart…

The Manger of My Heart

This Christmas, Lord, come to the manger of my heart.
Fill me with Your presence from the very start.
As I prepare for this Holy day and gifts to be given,
Remind me of the gift You gave when You sent Your Son from Heaven.

The first Christmas gift…the greatest gift ever.
You came as a baby born in a manger.
Wrapped like the gifts I find under my tree,
Waiting to be opened; to reveal Your love to me.

Restore to me the wonder that came with Jesus’ birth,
when He left the riches of Heaven and wrapped Himself in rags of earth.
Immanuel, God with us, Your presence came that night.
And angels announced, “Into your darkness, God brings His Light.”

“Do not be afraid,” they said, to shepherds in the field.
Speak to my heart today, Lord, and help me to yield.
Make me like those shepherd boys, obedient to Your call.
Setting all the distractions aside, to You I surrender them all.

Surround me with Your presence, Lord, I long to hear Your voice.
Clear my mind of countless concerns and all the holiday noise.
Slow me down this Christmas, let me not be in a rush.
In the midst of all the people and planning, I want to feel Your hush.

This Christmas, Jesus, come to the manger of my heart.
Invade my soul like Bethlehem, bringing peace to every part.
Dwell within and around me as I unwrap Your presence each day.
Keep me close to You, Lord. It’s in Your wonderful Name I pray.

{written by Renee Swope, copyright 2016}


Printable Christmas Prayer (click on the links below)



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A Cup of Christmas COCOA {cute, fun, affordable gift idea & FREE printable gift tags}

A Cup of Christmas Cocoa
I love finding creative, affordable and fun Christmas gift ideas, especially those that keep Christ at the center of Christmas. 
Several years ago, my friend Tracie shared the cutest idea using the word COCOA written on a gift tag and tied to a Christmas mug. It went something like this:

C is for CHRIST, the reason for Christmas!

O is for ORNAMENTS that decorate our tree and remind us to decorate our hearts and homes with God’s love.

C is for CELEBRATE as we give gifts and remember all God has given us.

O is for OVERJOYED! Instead of letting our hearts feel overwhelmed with the busy season, let’s choose to be overjoyed with the facts that Jesus was born.

A is to remind us that in the ABUNDANCE of holiday activities what we really need is the abundant life Jesus offers through a relationship with Him.

To use this acronym for a gift tag, click and save the image above download this FREE printable with 4 tags on each page.

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I love all of these, but there is so much more! Hop over to DaySpring
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