Day 1 – Up Close and Personal Mini-Study

 

(Jesus) he left Judea and went back once more to Galilee. Now he had to go through Samaria. So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about the sixth hour.

When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give me a drink?” (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.

The Samaritan woman said to him, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.)

Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”

John 4:3-10

 

The first thing I notice is when John says that Jesus “had” to go through Samaria. Normally Jewish people would do everything they could to avoid Samaritans. They would travel around Samaria to get to Galilee, not through it. But Jesus HAD to be there.

Why? Because He knew she’d be there. It must have been a habit she’d formed over time. He knew why she came at noon, although it didn’t make sense to anyone else. It was the hottest part of the day. The other women came in the morning or late afternoon as the sun set. And they didn’t come alone. They traveled together in community – with their girlfriends.

But not Sam (let’s call her that while we get to know her). Sam walked alone.

The other women came to the well in the cool of the day to avoid the scorching heat of the sun; to make easier to carry the weight of the water in the jars. I wonder if Sam used to walk with the women from her small town. I imagine them walking together, filling their jars with water for cooking, cleaning, drinking and bathing.

I picture them talking about their day, talking about their husbands and kids. But at some point they started talking about her. Whispers and condescending glances must have come soon after her first divorce. I wonder if whispers turned to outright “mean girl”comments after her second divorce. At what point did she make excuses to stay back while the other women went ahead?

Instead of avoiding the scorching heat of the sun, Sam went to the well during the hottest part of the day to avoid the scorching pain of their rejection and judgment. The weight of the jar in that heat must have been unbearable but the weight of their words was more than she could take.

Imagine her thoughts that day when she looked up and saw a man sitting at the well. A Jewish man. What would he want? Why was He looking at her? Would he condemn her, too. Telling her she was worthless because she was Samaritan.

When she looked into His eyes she saw acceptance not judgment. Love not hate. When He spoke there was gentleness in his voice, even kindness and humility in His request for a drink of water. She felt valuable in His presence, as though she had something to offer. And it wasn’t what all the other men in her life had wanted. No, there was something different about Him. Yet she didn’t understand why He (a Jew) was talking to her (a Samaritan).

He told her that if she only knew Who she was talking to, she wouldn’t even bother with the water in the well. She’d ask Him for the water He had to give and He’d give her life-giving water; so much so that she’d be completely satisfied and would never thirst again.

© 2008, Renee Swope. All rights reserved.

About Renee

Renee Swope is a Word-lover, story-teller, heart-encourager and grace-needer. She's also a wife, mom, friend, daughter and author of A Confident Heart, a Retailers Choice Award winning book that became a best-seller and has been published in six languages, with over 150,000 copies sold. Renee is speaks around the country at women's events and and serves on the writing team for DaySpring’s inCourage blog. For twenty years, Renee served in leadership at Proverbs 31 Ministries and as former co-host of the ministry's radio program, “Everyday Life with Lysa & Renee.

Comments

  1. Renee…WOW! I couldn’t read this fast enough – so caught in the story and application. WOW!

    I love this portion of scripture. God is a God of second chances. A God who restores. A God who puts “Humpty Dumpty’s” together again. Shame tells us we are unworthy. The fabric of our life unravels, but Jesus offers hope. I love that Jesus doesn’t lecture her or even change her living arrangement, but understands the living death she is enduring. Her response is one of so much joy and excitement that she even forgets the reason she came to the well – she leaves her jug and runs off to share the hope she’s been given.

    Into my tired, sad heart Jesus smiles and says, ‘Do better now my child.’

    Thanks for making this story come alive again to me.
    Love & prayers,
    Joy

  2. It’s Jesus’ question that lingers in my spirit…

    “Will you give me a drink?” Jesus came for something far greater than water…he came for a drink of relationship. She had a great offering to make to her Savior that day…she offered herself and with that offering, many were added to the kingdom. His thirst led him there. Her thirst kept him there. Living water!

    peace~elaine

  3. Renee,

    This is beautiful. I just love this story and you’ve given it yet another fresh look. What a beautiful message of love, forgiveness, and hope.

  4. Renee,
    This is so neat. I love how you named her in this story. I am so visual so I was right there at the well.

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